you make them happy so you could be happy in return

I disagree

you make them happy because you merely like to see them happy

it's not that we are all selfish bad

we can look at love as altruistic

but deep down nothing is altruisitc

Selfishness and altrusim needs to be blended

you liking to see them happy means you are happy

because you like it

yes but thats not selfish

we only assume altruism

thats you just liking them to be happy

it literally is

you liking something is selfish

No its not

because you are happy when you like something when you are that thing

I like pizza

so when I eat it im happy

its selfish

Happiness isnt selfish

wanting to make yourself happy is

wanting to be happy is a want though

not selfishness

a want for you is a selfish want

when you give money to charity you think you are a good person

but you're just lying to yourself

yes but thats not why you love, you love because you want them to be happy not because you want to be happy

you want them to be happy because it makes you happy in return

No many people give to charity because they want the world to be a better place

people want others to be happy

because it makes us happy in return

No many want them to just be happy

it's egoistic

but we call it altruism

Again I disagree

no one wants others to just be happy if they dont benefit

I want other people to be happy around me so I can be happy as well

I recognise I am happy when others are happy

That's wrong, I've seen many do it.

you have

Including myself