Your mom

Ty

yes

not because its hurtful to you

well yes they love them

right and love isnt selfish and you're not free when you love someone

especially not when you have a partner

it is

partner makes you happy

and you make them happy

so you urge to keep them

we call it love

yes but you have to make them happy otherwise you wont be happy

deep down everything is egoistic

you make them happy so you could be happy in return

I disagree

you make them happy because you merely like to see them happy

it's not that we are all selfish bad

we can look at love as altruistic

but deep down nothing is altruisitc

Selfishness and altrusim needs to be blended

you liking to see them happy means you are happy

because you like it

yes but thats not selfish

we only assume altruism

thats you just liking them to be happy

it literally is

you liking something is selfish

No its not

because you are happy when you like something when you are that thing

I like pizza

so when I eat it im happy

its selfish

Happiness isnt selfish

wanting to make yourself happy is

wanting to be happy is a want though

not selfishness

a want for you is a selfish want

when you give money to charity you think you are a good person

but you're just lying to yourself

yes but thats not why you love, you love because you want them to be happy not because you want to be happy