:d

other people's freedoms should be of your concern

because the reason you're so free is because they're free

only if it directly impacts me

if you lived in a slave society you would likely be a slave

if my sister dying makes me less free ofc I will protect her

If my girlfriend makes me happy I will protect her to keep her with me

Okay

but it keeps comming to you

you can only concern for yourself

if you give money to homeless ppl you are doing it to make yourself feel good

Not really, you can concern for others without liking yourself.

Thats why a lot of people died for others

what's to gain when you're dead?

seeing someone die would be too hurtful for you thus you kill yourself

also it's impulsive when you love someone

Thats not why they killed themselves for people

Who owns this discord server

they killed themselves because they love them

Your mom

Ty

yes

not because its hurtful to you

well yes they love them

right and love isnt selfish and you're not free when you love someone

especially not when you have a partner

it is

partner makes you happy

and you make them happy

so you urge to keep them

we call it love

yes but you have to make them happy otherwise you wont be happy

deep down everything is egoistic

you make them happy so you could be happy in return

I disagree

you make them happy because you merely like to see them happy

it's not that we are all selfish bad

we can look at love as altruistic

but deep down nothing is altruisitc

Selfishness and altrusim needs to be blended

you liking to see them happy means you are happy