if you give money to homeless ppl you are doing it to make yourself feel good

Not really, you can concern for others without liking yourself.

Thats why a lot of people died for others

what's to gain when you're dead?

seeing someone die would be too hurtful for you thus you kill yourself

also it's impulsive when you love someone

Thats not why they killed themselves for people

Who owns this discord server

they killed themselves because they love them

Your mom

Ty

yes

not because its hurtful to you

well yes they love them

right and love isnt selfish and you're not free when you love someone

especially not when you have a partner

it is

partner makes you happy

and you make them happy

so you urge to keep them

we call it love

yes but you have to make them happy otherwise you wont be happy

deep down everything is egoistic

you make them happy so you could be happy in return

I disagree

you make them happy because you merely like to see them happy

it's not that we are all selfish bad

we can look at love as altruistic

but deep down nothing is altruisitc

Selfishness and altrusim needs to be blended

you liking to see them happy means you are happy

because you like it

yes but thats not selfish

we only assume altruism

thats you just liking them to be happy

it literally is

you liking something is selfish

No its not

because you are happy when you like something when you are that thing

I like pizza

so when I eat it im happy