Message from @Northern Lights
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because while people today 'know more' they UNDERSTAND so very little
thats just based on intelligence and pattern recognition
and intelligent people will always be a minority
it's called 'judgement'
They don't think
something you can only develop by operating in a vacuum
who works in a vacuum today?
no one
Surely if they sat down and thought of how to effectively discipline their children and worked at it trial and error - experience. then they'd work it out
But they don't engage
They don't think
there is no incentive to do so
instead of trying to come up with a solution, instead of trying to solve problems without asking anyone, they simply look how other do it
let the school handle it
There is no problem solving though they know there is a problem
well you enjoy the money you have spent half your life collecting
Yes
thats the mentality
They ask others what to do
not really northern because children are different as well as circumstances are different
Its a mark of dependence
They aren't self reliant independent people
you cannot compare a household where the majority of people respect reason and logic vs the houshould that respects might makes right
They are the kind of people who ask others for trivial advice they are perfectly capable and more qualified in giving
even if you account for the difference in children, what works under one roof will back-fire under the other roof
That is part of what I am saying
Your child is an individual with a personality
Ofc you have to tailor what you do to them
yes, but they are a CHILD first
an indiviuall with personality second
you MUST contain the outliers FIRST
otherwise, you invalidate any authority you might have
and destroy the ability to reach the individual
I think there is a miscommunication I don't follow
this is critial because many children, MOST children willl have access to superior knowledge and be 'better' or 'smarter' than their parents
they will see no reason to yield to the 'boomer'
I was talking about the parents not being self reliant not the child
but ALL of us, no matter how smart must learn to deal with situations we cannot control
anyone know any good video editing software?
with incompetent authority