Message from @AgniKobi

Discord ID: 621893458855985152


2019-09-12 23:07:33 UTC  

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2019-09-12 23:08:25 UTC  

@Домінік#7553

2019-09-12 23:08:28 UTC  

ah shit

2019-09-12 23:10:15 UTC  

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2019-09-12 23:11:52 UTC  

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2019-09-12 23:26:32 UTC  

wot

2019-09-12 23:26:40 UTC  

why do people keep putting links

2019-09-12 23:34:45 UTC  

nowhere else to put them i guess

2019-09-12 23:34:48 UTC  

for some people here

2019-09-12 23:37:55 UTC  

@Belisarius its hard to imagine a foreign name equating to anything besides the migration of people. But I supposed you are right, maybe her parents just picked the name Yasmin Alibhai at random and it has nothing to do with being derived from a foreign culture.

2019-09-12 23:38:21 UTC  

you can like

2019-09-12 23:38:24 UTC  

not be so snarky lmao

2019-09-12 23:39:11 UTC  

But I guess one would first have to accept that there is a historical context to a british identity, least their is no foundation for calling anything foriegn.

2019-09-12 23:41:38 UTC  

what I *meant* was that you were equating-- falsely-- immigration with neoliberalism. Clearly, there was immigration before neoliberalism. Does neoliberalism facilitate *mass* immigration? Yeah, it can of course. But then again, there were also muslims and sikhs living as a small minority in Victorian Britain. What I'm trying to say is laying the immigration of any "suspected foreigner" and their subsequent existence as a British citizen/resident of the UK on the feet of neoliberalism strikes me as wrong. Indeed, it strikes me as vaguely prejudiced

2019-09-12 23:42:16 UTC  

I'd also like to point out that you don't know the first thing of what I believe, or that I disagree that the British identity lacks a historical context. Of course it has one.

2019-09-12 23:43:17 UTC  

Honestly I think my main conceit is that while I'm on "your side", or Sargon's "side" it seems like there's also a lot of really fucking lazy arguments for this side that need to be reevaluated. Its like half of us lost the plot on what *we* believe in our haste to react to what the other side says.

2019-09-12 23:45:37 UTC  

You bring up some solid points, Ill try to get back to you when I can.

2019-09-12 23:45:49 UTC  

And I don't mean to sound gatekeeper-y there. its hardly my place to be arbiter of good and bad arguments but its certainly my right to point out potential problems i guess

2019-09-12 23:45:55 UTC  

alright man, take care

2019-09-13 02:22:34 UTC  

oh shit

2019-09-13 02:25:35 UTC  

Hmm?

2019-09-13 02:27:20 UTC  

so if you repeatedly tell someone "call me before you come over"

2019-09-13 02:27:27 UTC  

and they like call but if you dont answer they just come over anyway

2019-09-13 02:27:35 UTC  

and like if you dont answer your door they like knock on your windows and shit

2019-09-13 02:27:51 UTC  

thats fucking wierd, right?

2019-09-13 02:27:55 UTC  

like im not asshole here, am i?

2019-09-13 02:28:44 UTC  

this friend of mine like straight up he will call me

2019-09-13 02:28:48 UTC  

and ill be like "yo im busy right now"

2019-09-13 02:28:53 UTC  

and then he will come over anyway

2019-09-13 02:28:57 UTC  

and want to hang out for like HOURS

2019-09-13 02:29:27 UTC  

just now he called i didnt hear him call so he came over and just like i guess he knocked on the door but i had headphones on

2019-09-13 02:29:33 UTC  

so he like knocked on the window of the room i was in

2019-09-13 02:29:42 UTC  

and its like "oh i just wanted to show you this light i have"

2019-09-13 02:29:49 UTC  

and im like "yeah ok its pretty cool, cya"

2019-09-13 02:30:03 UTC  

yet now i feel like an asshole because hes obviously going through some shit

2019-09-13 02:30:29 UTC  

hes someone ive known for like 10 years but this behavior is new as of like a week ago

2019-09-13 02:31:17 UTC  

i dunno maybe im just being an asshole

2019-09-13 02:33:55 UTC  

Generally, behavioral shifts that happen quickly like that aren't a great sign. But no, expecting your home to be treated in a more respectful manner than if you were just hanging out in a cafe isn't being an asshole. On the other hand, he might just have trouble reaching out or figuring out boundaries. Odd, but not ill will.

2019-09-13 02:34:23 UTC  

yeah

2019-09-13 02:35:31 UTC  

ive been trying for a few days now to set a boundary like "today we will not hang out, we will hang out tomorrow"