Message from @AgniKobi
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ah shit
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wot
why do people keep putting links
nowhere else to put them i guess
for some people here
@Belisarius its hard to imagine a foreign name equating to anything besides the migration of people. But I supposed you are right, maybe her parents just picked the name Yasmin Alibhai at random and it has nothing to do with being derived from a foreign culture.
you can like
not be so snarky lmao
But I guess one would first have to accept that there is a historical context to a british identity, least their is no foundation for calling anything foriegn.
what I *meant* was that you were equating-- falsely-- immigration with neoliberalism. Clearly, there was immigration before neoliberalism. Does neoliberalism facilitate *mass* immigration? Yeah, it can of course. But then again, there were also muslims and sikhs living as a small minority in Victorian Britain. What I'm trying to say is laying the immigration of any "suspected foreigner" and their subsequent existence as a British citizen/resident of the UK on the feet of neoliberalism strikes me as wrong. Indeed, it strikes me as vaguely prejudiced
I'd also like to point out that you don't know the first thing of what I believe, or that I disagree that the British identity lacks a historical context. Of course it has one.
Honestly I think my main conceit is that while I'm on "your side", or Sargon's "side" it seems like there's also a lot of really fucking lazy arguments for this side that need to be reevaluated. Its like half of us lost the plot on what *we* believe in our haste to react to what the other side says.
You bring up some solid points, Ill try to get back to you when I can.
And I don't mean to sound gatekeeper-y there. its hardly my place to be arbiter of good and bad arguments but its certainly my right to point out potential problems i guess
alright man, take care
Hmm?
so if you repeatedly tell someone "call me before you come over"
and they like call but if you dont answer they just come over anyway
and like if you dont answer your door they like knock on your windows and shit
thats fucking wierd, right?
like im not asshole here, am i?
this friend of mine like straight up he will call me
and ill be like "yo im busy right now"
and then he will come over anyway
and want to hang out for like HOURS
just now he called i didnt hear him call so he came over and just like i guess he knocked on the door but i had headphones on
so he like knocked on the window of the room i was in
and its like "oh i just wanted to show you this light i have"
and im like "yeah ok its pretty cool, cya"
yet now i feel like an asshole because hes obviously going through some shit
hes someone ive known for like 10 years but this behavior is new as of like a week ago
i dunno maybe im just being an asshole
Generally, behavioral shifts that happen quickly like that aren't a great sign. But no, expecting your home to be treated in a more respectful manner than if you were just hanging out in a cafe isn't being an asshole. On the other hand, he might just have trouble reaching out or figuring out boundaries. Odd, but not ill will.
yeah
ive been trying for a few days now to set a boundary like "today we will not hang out, we will hang out tomorrow"