Good input @Ayla there is a time for all things.

@バカFubuki-san that's cool, how did it feel? Also do you watch JLP's church on Sundays?

@J_G_ It was great! I'm waiting to go to the first young adults meeting! I've been missin them as of late but I try to watch 'em later . Why do you ask?

@バカFubuki-san You may want to download these and listen while you work or drive or work out: https://archive.org/details/Jesse.Lee.Peterson.Church

A great question for men:
What advice would you give a Sister in Christ if she is about to go on a date with new man? What questions would you want her to ask him?

According to Jesse, if there's premarital sex then the woman will not respect the man and the marriage probably won't work. So probably the main number one question would be answered without having to ask. Most important thing I guess would be not to try to change somebody else because that's not likely to happen. So just ask yourself why you like that person. And be honest to yourself with the answer that comes from your heart.

Nice answer, @J_G_

Ms Sasha you already know the answer haha. Let the date happen. The conversation will happen if it does. Of course no physical stuff, because you are a lady. Good luck! I hope you get married and bring some children of the light

first date with my wife... I went in for kiss and she pushed my face out of the way... and laughed at me. Drove me nuts

Yes bring in some children bc remember: STRAIGHT IS GREAT!

Aww that’s sweet. What a good woman

@csquare Oh I do sir! Lolz, I just want to engage the men here in the Discord. :)

haha I figured Sasha, Thanks POOP. she recently started listening to BOND CHURCH. She started understanding the definition of Alpha and beta, she said I was a beta back then and now I have become alpha.

I kinda worry when I hear women looking for an alpha, because it is a narrow path. I would have never started walking that path, if it weren't becoming a leader. chicken before the egg kinda thing. hrrrhmmm

That’s awesome for sure

It’s kind of similar to ignorance is bliss I guess

The more a woman knows what she wants, it makes the choices harder

at the same time, I’d rather make a tougher screening process for a mate than let anyone in & cause destruction

I understand.

First installment of rent paid.

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I completely agree with @Szayel's Pooppion on this one. Many men would tell women that they are looking for a non-existant unicorn and that they should lower their standards. The many times I have done that, I have ended up in very failed relationships. The standard any man or woman should uphold is God's standard. @csquare

ya, all you are doing is making me feel really greatful for my situation. Maybe I wasnt as bad off as I thought I was

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Well you probably were not hard to make an alpha? Lol

Like the more a beta a man is, then the harder it’d be

Maybe you just had some ways but it wasn’t a tough transition

@Deleted User 🙁 my first two relationships were partly a result of me settling for less

Right. Any man who tells a woman that is not worth his weight in gold. I think that would be a good question: Should a woman have high standards?

Thats were I have a problem understanding, If we are just suppose to be like birds... and God will take care of us. Why care? Then my thoughts...I get into the idea Birds do work on a hierarchal system that involve dominance of peers and opposite sex: alpha male and beta. So I guess you guys are just following biological instinct. um the checks and balances that God put into place long ago. So you have my permission now to have high standards, carry on hah

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@csquare lolz! And that is something any woman would appreciate to hear!

Lol xD

I get you

I always come back to the spiritual order in thinking of it

I’m pretty sure women, when they’re spiritually awakened, seek alpha males subconsciously , it’s like nature. Because the man has to be able to Christ’s representation to us; the closest we can get in the physical world

And alpha males are striving to follow Christ in example, while Christ is above him

To be*

Man has to be a guide for women. How can it be done if the man is weak & his father is Satan?

Men and women generally have turmoil in relationships when it’s like that