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I know women with office jobs who are considering their husbands being stay-at-home dads

I just dated a 27 year old who was open to that. I wasn't, but she was.

Why were you not open to that?

Because I make a killing at work and I want a traditional home environment with the woman at home.

But if I was injured, I'd definitely be open to it

If you're worried about having more average 100-105 IQ'd kids don't. They will still be highly productive members of society. I know that sounds like a shadow of a leftist meme but when it comes to our people, it's especially true. Quality laborers are becoming more and more rare as our country was cucked with the boomer-mantra, double-whammy of 'everyone should go to college!' and 'we need countless immigrants to fill all those labor job openings!'

Western society was built and maintained by 100 IQ whites.

Heck, propensity to feminism increases with IQ, it seems

@Tanner - SC Right exactly. See, we want the same thing. Because relationships built that way tend to last, when the woman makes more, then that can be a problem. On top of that woman usually have the better options, which is almost always true if the SMV of both partners is the same. So most people should not consider that kind of arrangement. It is simply because she CAN'T find someone like that who wants kids she is cool with me- younger and more virile. That, and I really want a kid

IMO, children are better off with someone staying at home with them. It's better for that to be the mother, but in unusual circumstances, the father being at home is better than no one being at home.

Great discussion going on btw

@Mikolas AI is going to more and more displace lower IQ members of society.

>when the woman makes more, then that can be a problem
When the woman is 17 years older, that can be a BIG problem

@Tanner - SC what do you do for work?

@Pat-MA engineering management

>woman usually have the better options, which is almost always true if the SMV of both partners is the same

You are too blackpilled. If SMV is the same, the options are the same. Now women have more one-night-stand options, but that's not the same as marriage options.

Equal SMV = Equal marriage options

Some women actually WANT to get married

@Tanner - SC exactly. which is why this arrangement cannot last forever. She is beautiful still, I am financially desperate, at least for now. It can't be permanent.

They're not red-pilled, but they do want to settle down and they're not looking for a "bad boy"

@Jonaltright in our lifetimes and most of theirs, not really, well the McDonald's tier stuff probably, but not the trades, techs and farmers. Not to mention the odds of a massive economic reset from some sort of war, balkanization or w/e may come in the diversified/pozzed future.

Even if you wanted to trade off age and fertility for a gain in beauty, IQ, and money, you can do that with a 30-year-old woman. 44 is insane.

@Jonaltright Honestly man it is probably better to marry a woman who you love (and vice versa) and raise kids together in a stable marriage. Do not worry so much about IQ

SMV of 30-year old women or 26-year-old single moms is very low in the marriage market

Both will provide you a far better environment than a 44-year-old will

There's even women in IE who are fully red-pilled and waiting for a guy like you if you'll just give them a chance.

@Tanner - SC There are way more guys interested in those women than their are women. How does one meet women in IE? There is like 2 in 70 at meetups

And one or both is taken

The IE women don't all post in one spot, but look at some of the channels in this server and you'll see some

And the guys in IE have girlfriends and those women have female friends

And church youth groups are full of young women seeking marriage

My previous roommate met his wife in one. He said he was spooked at first going to the meetups because if he talked to girls there for more than 5 minutes, they thought they were on a path to marriage, haha.

You can get a good woman

@Mikolas I expect it to get very bad. I don't want to get into a debate on that here however. I don't prefer the term "black/white pilled"
I just try to be realistic. @Tanner - SC I gotta run, be back in an hour

Cheers. Keep your chin up and date more women

Open your horizons

Remember when MGTOW guys complain about thots who just go for whatever chad "gives her the tingles". Don't go after whatever woman gives you the "$$ and IQ" tingles.

@Tanner - SC very good points

And if you're hyper-concerned about being in a white-only environment for your children, the poorest areas of the midwest are still whiter than the richest areas of Texas.

Money doesn't buy everything, including a white environment.