You can't without asking for permission I think.

Nvm guess you can't

I think it's a special priv

You'll have to send it to a mod

How long do you think it will take me to get over this if I do smash one other girl and then see her for 2-3 days?

Varies.

I don't think I bought into her that much versus the act itself.

I hope only a few months.

I know I couldn't get into anyone else after my ex broke up with me. El capitan would straight up not be interested.

You said it took you some years for one right @Xychotic?

I straight up didn't even find any women attractive for months.

Damn

I don't have that problem now or when we were smashing daily.

I still caught boners for work mates or random women.

Oh, I don't "catch wood" under pretty much any circumstance.

That could be an indication of bad health.

For me, I would say that there are times where women can be good looking and everything, but in the back of my mind I just know that it wont work.

Bit i felt way better after that, i still see her in my dreams but i'm no longer hurt about it

If i'm being honest, idk, to me it took 2 months to detach myself form a girl i was in love for the last 7 years, i had to cut communications completly tho

I don't dream about anything I'm not solving.

I need to take a lot from that philosophy

@Biolucker Yeah see, I only knew this girl 3 months and a lot of it was superficial.

@Xychotic I like it.

She appears from time to time, but i'm not hurt anymore

Good

I would feel completely trolled if someone tried to come back into my life after hurting me, but I guess it also depends on how long its been too

I am going to keep ignoring her messages until late this week (it's going to hurt) then reply every few days only a little until the sex marathon then keep cutting her off. It will become easier. I won't risk a total ghost because I think she's crazy.

@reagoge I was just clubbing last night. It can be boring if you're sober, but if you have a nice buzz going I like the neon lighting and loud music. It took me a little bit to open up to it but I like the primalness of it. I saw tool on wednesday and everyone there was very tame and lame and weren't even headbanging much or anything and I realized that was me years ago and now it's so much more fun being loose and expressive like that.

I am having fun

@Happy Humble Hermit I've only been 3 times so maybe I should keep trying it and just open up. It does seem relaxing if you don't think at all and just feel.

It will take less for you in that case, you are not as used to talk to her as myself who spent years with her

So you're still planning on having that marathon uh

I am just going to do it unless I truly feel pain or annoyance.

@reagoge yeah if you're caring what people around you think of your dancing (within reason, as long as you're not being a drunk crazy idiot) or you aren't comfortable in your body, then you won't like it. If I did it in high school I would not have enjoyed myself

@Happy Humble Hermit I think it is me being comfortable so now I am going to force myself to do it so I open up more 😉

@reagoge that's good, force yourself out of your comfort zone so you can enjoy new experiences. I would recommend going to an edm festival first, those are much easier to get into

I will try that!

Bruh i wish i can get out of venezuela already to start enjoying life damm

AHAHAHA

Truth.