Try to recconect with yourself in those 4 days vacation instead

Haha

What does that even mean

I’m reconnecting with myself now kinda

I worked out and gamed all day

Yeah but do you feel better?

If so just keep doing that until the feelings wear out

And keep ghosting her

Lmfao @What's gay anymore

*waste

*their

I can't let go of bad spelling.

How do i send pics here?

You can't without asking for permission I think.

Nvm guess you can't

I think it's a special priv

You'll have to send it to a mod

How long do you think it will take me to get over this if I do smash one other girl and then see her for 2-3 days?

Varies.

I don't think I bought into her that much versus the act itself.

I hope only a few months.

I know I couldn't get into anyone else after my ex broke up with me. El capitan would straight up not be interested.

You said it took you some years for one right @Xychotic?

I straight up didn't even find any women attractive for months.

Damn

I don't have that problem now or when we were smashing daily.

I still caught boners for work mates or random women.

Oh, I don't "catch wood" under pretty much any circumstance.

That could be an indication of bad health.

For me, I would say that there are times where women can be good looking and everything, but in the back of my mind I just know that it wont work.

Bit i felt way better after that, i still see her in my dreams but i'm no longer hurt about it

If i'm being honest, idk, to me it took 2 months to detach myself form a girl i was in love for the last 7 years, i had to cut communications completly tho

I don't dream about anything I'm not solving.

I need to take a lot from that philosophy

@Biolucker Yeah see, I only knew this girl 3 months and a lot of it was superficial.

@Xychotic I like it.

She appears from time to time, but i'm not hurt anymore

Good

I would feel completely trolled if someone tried to come back into my life after hurting me, but I guess it also depends on how long its been too

I am going to keep ignoring her messages until late this week (it's going to hurt) then reply every few days only a little until the sex marathon then keep cutting her off. It will become easier. I won't risk a total ghost because I think she's crazy.

@reagoge I was just clubbing last night. It can be boring if you're sober, but if you have a nice buzz going I like the neon lighting and loud music. It took me a little bit to open up to it but I like the primalness of it. I saw tool on wednesday and everyone there was very tame and lame and weren't even headbanging much or anything and I realized that was me years ago and now it's so much more fun being loose and expressive like that.