I always get it when I'm falling asleep, never when waking up

hahahaha

Felt so exposed lol

@⚡Clark⚡ I've never had the "naked at school" dream or anything like that

You’re parents are probably no divorced then @ophiuchus

when I was a kid I'd just dream that I was in the backseat of a car, there would be no driver or anyone else in the car, and it would just drive around and eventually crash and I'd wake up

@⚡Clark⚡ is that what that one comes from?

I guess

That’s crazy tho

(they're not divorced, you're right)

Nice haha

Awesome

I can't wait to be not divorced parents

my parents have been married for 28 years now

When I was a kid, I used to have dreams where I had a pretty mom.

they're gonna start booming soon

My mom was fat and in her late 40s by the time I was young. I always wanted a pretty mom.

My grandparents had been married for 62 years when my grandma died

That's got to be the most heartbreaking, life destroying thing.

Damn.

My granddad kind of gave up after that. He died within the year.

Dying of a broken heart.

@Selma yeah if my wife dies before me I'm going to go join the Dominicans.

Haha.

lmao

I was engaged for a year, didn't work out, but if he had died I probably would have gone with him. So to be married 62 years, that's just your entire life and livelihood.

He actually died of some crazy accident. He moved to this assisted living place after grandma died because he didn't want to be alone in the house anymore. He was just walking down to dinner and fell. Went to get checked out, was ostensibly fine, then said "I don't feel so good" and died like 10 minutes later.

Internal hemorrhage I guess.

Ouch, sorry to hear that

Being old sounds scary

>trip

>die

Oh my god, that's awful. I'm sorry about thatt, ophiuchus. Out of genuine curiosity, what did people do before there were assisted living places?

Keep their loved one at home and take care of them?

Lived with their kids I think

Are we just so atomized?

@Selma they lived with kids yeah

Yep absolutely

I won’t go to a home. F that.

3 of my grandparents died before I was born, and only my grandfather remains, but he could never even care to remember my name, and would call me my sister's name who was 20 years older than me. I think you're supposed to be close to your grandparents.

@Selma that's pretty common I think