I think I would be lost if my husband reposed. I can’t imagine after 41 years...halfway there and I just can’t imagine how difficult it would be. May your memories bring you joy and peace
A lot of what helped was we were on vacations and I would listen to a woman helping me out through videos she published on youtube. Patt would listen to them and it helped her understand what outside LDS was like. I always offered to wear headphones but neither of us liked them.
I think the best way to share religious concerns is by living your life and as you did simply educating yourself. From a place of innocence for lack of a better word
Yes. That worked. I was very careful to not upset her. Just slowly see the pitfalls of the LDS church. In the end it was me pointing out how the Church was changing doctrine while lying they were not changing it. She saw the evil of lying about that.
My parents and all my siblings (6) are still LDS. Two of my seven children are as well.
I think that as they see me cope with the loss of my wife it is making them question LDS. Why is he doing so well. How has this helped mim so much, leaving LDS.
the thing is for us to learn is to observe and be shown the lies for what they are as lies, not truth...not be shown a narrative of lies and call it truth
i have learned from masters..and created new skills on my own..while discovering the skills of other masters...for now i teach those that haven't learned anything yet of worth so they can pass on the knowledge to others when it's their time to share the information without the narrative trying to change it so it's a lie and not lived truth
That was my goal when I was responsible for over 5,000 Grade 8 students over my career.
To give them tools and requisite knowledge to succeed in Life and to be Good citizens.
but later passed them on makeups when i went over their heads to show the head admins the books were full of shit when faced with reality of experience
