Message from @mella

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2019-02-17 03:57:05 UTC  

all my good grades are in public speaking

2019-02-17 03:57:06 UTC  

Just be the guy they like.

2019-02-17 03:57:09 UTC  

I wish that was my major

2019-02-17 03:57:18 UTC  

I mean communications

2019-02-17 03:58:13 UTC  

I mean not actually, because it probably pays nothing

2019-02-17 03:58:19 UTC  

but I still wish I had a different major

2019-02-17 04:05:24 UTC  

If your professors like you, they'd probably be happy to give you a TA job. My one friend was offered one for a class he never even took.

2019-02-17 04:05:43 UTC  

15 years from now when your Comms major buddy is still in debt and you are deciding what car to buy I think you will understand lol.

2019-02-17 04:07:39 UTC  

I won't be super rich or anything

2019-02-17 04:07:54 UTC  

graduates of my school have pretty low incomes

2019-02-17 04:08:57 UTC  

My actual smart friends found jobs that they can do without university and still make decent money

2019-02-17 04:09:27 UTC  

I would highly recommend to younger people looking into that before deciding to go to university

2019-02-17 04:27:05 UTC  

I feel like you talk about this every night, Jacob.

2019-02-17 04:28:37 UTC  

ya you're right

2019-02-17 04:29:02 UTC  

make sure to mention buying a car again

2019-02-17 04:29:47 UTC  

"The average person who did x earns y"

oh okay, cool. Are you going to resign to being average or are you going to choose to live an extraordinary life?

2019-02-17 04:31:16 UTC  

eh we could debate the validity of the statistics but I think you're right, I need to find something else to talk about

2019-02-17 04:31:53 UTC  

You're clearly above average intelligence. You'll do fine if you're motivated.

2019-02-17 04:33:04 UTC  

It's okay to be concerned about your future, but don't set yourself up with a career "predestination-ist" mindset. So dumb.

2019-02-17 04:33:52 UTC  

@Jacob shoot for security before anything else is probably pretty sound advice. stay ambitious but be smart about it.

2019-02-17 04:35:13 UTC  

so true. i did a similar thing by rigid planning years ago and failed successfully. now, i go with the flow of things.

2019-02-17 04:36:14 UTC  

I appreciate the motivation. To be clear, though, the money isn't that important to me. When I talk about this stuff it's not with the intent of being pessimistic. @Papa Pizzagate

2019-02-17 04:36:30 UTC  

@Kingfish Ya that sounds pretty reasonable

2019-02-17 04:37:02 UTC  

I have some pretty fair life plans, but I’m still always looking at where I can try to get my foot in the door with more ambitious goals.

2019-02-17 04:37:14 UTC  

@Jacob there is literally 0 virtue in being poor.

2019-02-17 04:37:46 UTC  

oh no it's not that

2019-02-17 04:38:09 UTC  

Alot of people romanticize it. But it's pointless and counterproductive.

2019-02-17 04:38:42 UTC  

I would never *reject* the opportunity to gain money

2019-02-17 04:39:18 UTC  

The problem is to become very wealthy you generally need to risk becoming poor and in a world like ours is at the moment economic stability is probably a serious concern

2019-02-17 04:39:45 UTC  

Especially for someone still in or just graduating college

2019-02-17 04:39:49 UTC  

Loans and all

2019-02-17 04:40:27 UTC  

dont spend money

2019-02-17 04:40:36 UTC  

thats my mantra

2019-02-17 04:41:02 UTC  

^not the worst idea.

2019-02-17 04:41:08 UTC  

Invest.

2019-02-17 04:41:25 UTC  

I would reject money if involved a certain country in the middle east

2019-02-17 04:41:42 UTC  

What I mean is I would never reject money just for the sake of rejecting money

2019-02-17 04:42:06 UTC  

@Auf WI Same. My biggest expenses are gas, food, and IE.

2019-02-17 04:42:51 UTC  

I guess I can't exactly say that because if I want something I kind of get it, but for the most part I save most of the money I make

2019-02-17 04:44:00 UTC  

@Jacob Just remember that this isn't the 1950s where the job you get at 20 is the one you'll do for the next 45 years. If you get an internship, great! If not, do service sector work and try again next summer.

2019-02-17 04:44:50 UTC  

I'm not getting my hopes up too much for an internship