I'm nursing rsi from submitting my masters xD

yeah; what's RSI?

repetitive strain injury. I also have a bad shoulder from playing too many video games 3 years ago. It's flared up.

I had a spinal trauma from Aikido many years back

@Maria Matthew me....never

That's always good to know haha 😃

gender @-stupidface- ?

interesting how you ended up here if a dude

I found him via another discord channel and invited him on

I do find stupidface's profile triggering because I still like Trump lol

So before I go here's my thoughts so far.

Do we have any experience/success to draw useful advice for people? I don't. I lost 40lbs of fat so I guess that's something i can help with.

We should encourage our own personal development as we understand where everyone comes from. Free from the scoulding BS of r/the blue pill and r/nice guys

/rthebluepill and especially r/mens lib are pretty toxic

though r/niceguys provides excellent examples of how NOT to pick up women

people have their different areas of expertise. I think it's hard to find someone who has all areas covered. You should take what you like from dozens of various role models. E.g. learn from Trump about business, but not about marriage

Congrats @tubby !

I personally find honesty the best policy when it comes to talking to women and I beleive the same holds actual dating

dunno if anyone would agree

Cheers @Maria Matthew

Yup honesty is the best policy

I'm not an expert either but If you need any advices on how the female brain works, or what woman want, here I am

Of course you have to have tact and charm around it all

Mixed in with some game and kino and you're sorted

Totally agreed

So what's your plan @Maria Matthew regarding this?

if I need some rigid rules that exploit human nature to make someone attracted to me then probably I shouldn't be dating that someone

EXACTLY

@Maria Matthew Can you tell us about attention? TRP says attention is currency and you should be wise with how you spend it. What do you think? Should men limit the attention they want to give to girls so they don't "inflate their currency"?

Regarding what exactly ?

The discord group

@IntAnon i think you should maintain the same drive as you had when the girl entered your life

I don't see attention as currency as much as a side effect of attraction

reducing human interaction to transaction is the basis of TRP philosophy

fuck I should write that down

haha you should

@IntAnon I think a man shouldn't act crazy interested at the start. A right balance is always needed but I also do think that withdrawing attention from a women ( technique from the Red Pill I believe) is a very dangerous thing. A woman need the attention of her man, just for the basic fact that otherwise she doesn't feel safe and protected.

Playing with attention if always a very bad solution.

tactics can be used, but without ditching at the end and building a family afterwards

excessive attention right away is unattractive even to men

Yup, so there's a balance.

Yes it is to woman too.

It's simply avoiding neeedyness