on detox since jan

lonely, shy, depressed, virgins/had rough breakups, no success with girls

Always question stuff

Because it started to appear absurd

started noticing pseudoscience

For me it started from an interest in stoicism.. That's the thing, many roads lead to TRP

lifting, diet, mindfulness ect. They have some good shit. but the undertones are there.

I stumbled upon it, tried a few things (be charming, lift, take initiative, etc), saw they worked, and went all in.

Oh yeah, but that's how they get you

They bait you in with truly good material and advice

Do you have a mic bro?

But mix it with BS

I'm nursing rsi from submitting my masters xD

yeah; what's RSI?

repetitive strain injury. I also have a bad shoulder from playing too many video games 3 years ago. It's flared up.

I had a spinal trauma from Aikido many years back

@Maria Matthew me....never

That's always good to know haha 😃

gender @-stupidface- ?

interesting how you ended up here if a dude

I found him via another discord channel and invited him on

I do find stupidface's profile triggering because I still like Trump lol

So before I go here's my thoughts so far.

Do we have any experience/success to draw useful advice for people? I don't. I lost 40lbs of fat so I guess that's something i can help with.

We should encourage our own personal development as we understand where everyone comes from. Free from the scoulding BS of r/the blue pill and r/nice guys

/rthebluepill and especially r/mens lib are pretty toxic

though r/niceguys provides excellent examples of how NOT to pick up women

people have their different areas of expertise. I think it's hard to find someone who has all areas covered. You should take what you like from dozens of various role models. E.g. learn from Trump about business, but not about marriage

Congrats @tubby !

I personally find honesty the best policy when it comes to talking to women and I beleive the same holds actual dating

dunno if anyone would agree

Cheers @Maria Matthew

Yup honesty is the best policy

I'm not an expert either but If you need any advices on how the female brain works, or what woman want, here I am

Of course you have to have tact and charm around it all

Mixed in with some game and kino and you're sorted

Totally agreed

So what's your plan @Maria Matthew regarding this?

if I need some rigid rules that exploit human nature to make someone attracted to me then probably I shouldn't be dating that someone

EXACTLY

@Maria Matthew Can you tell us about attention? TRP says attention is currency and you should be wise with how you spend it. What do you think? Should men limit the attention they want to give to girls so they don't "inflate their currency"?

Regarding what exactly ?

The discord group