Message from @un chien m'a léché un pbj😳
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I don’t say that
I wasn't saying you did, this is generally speaking
But some one I was arguing with did say men get raped more I didn’t wanna be that person but I just corrected them 😂😂
Yeah, but they're silenced because they have to "be a man" or they're accused of enjoying it
And another thing is US and even EU law is very weird about rape
Like in the Twittersphere and shit like that
Then being called gay
No
I believe it’s toxic masculinity
Like "made to penetrate" really isn't a legal definition even though its very much so rape
men are afraid to do half the stuff because they are scared of something I forgot what it was 😭
I believe its intense societal pressure on men to be stoic and closed off
and toxic masculinity borderlines a farce anyways
Its such a stupid fucking concept
The point is that both genders can get raped and that steps to support both sides need to be made, it shouldn't be another competition in the oppression olympics
Well said
"Lets take all these toxic behaviors and attribute it to men and masculinity and then insult men for being masculine while attributing lots of positive behaviors to femininity and say men need to be more feminine"
Societal pressure to be stoic? How?
Huhhhh
Its literally language tricks
And if you *do* treat it as a competition then that kind of shows you don't actually give a shit about the problem, or at the very least are misguided as hell.
Exactly, soup. It's just so contradictory
It shouldn’t be a competition which gender gets raped more because in the end it’s traumatizing for both genders and should be handled
I hate that shit too, makes absolutely no sense.
also^
@Will-O'-the-Wild There is intense pressure on men to not show emotion in public, to not be vulnerable to others, to essentially "suffer in silence" in regard to any kind of emotional or even physical suffering from popular culture and even basic instinct
It is very difficult for a large majority of men to open up
Especially in a public forum
That is not really what stoic is supposed to mean.
Yes, but it's also difficult for women too
But what I mean by toxic masculinity is like if they cry about something apparently it’s “feminine” or they’re told to “be a man” idk how to explain it 😂 that’s just an example
The topic itself is very sensitive and difficult to open up about
On both sides
I mean the general basic definition from english, not the philosophical definition
Well men do show emotion in public, just not emotion that makes men appear more fragile and vulnerable if that helps
@un chien m'a léché un pbj😳 exactly, and whenever I get upset about something I'm told to stop being such a woman by my boyfriend's friends. It's ridiculous, showing emotion isn't feminine, its human
GG @Braden's Husband, you just advanced to level 4!
Not all men are like this, obviously. But it's sad that some are
Well I mean there are plenty of women that expect men to be strong and closed off
and in fact seek men out like that explicitly