ok here's what i don't get. Progressives say that people can decide what gender they are based on how they feel. But that raises the question what is a boy, what is a girl. if it's how you want to be viewed by society as eg. more competitive likes to play with trucks for boys. then how would that fit in with the feminist theory that men and women are exactly the same with just different societal expectations that should be abolished. So if you are a progressive parent and you're raising your child gender neutral what do you tell your kids when they ask "What is a boy and am I one?"
