Message from @Dr.Wol
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@Schedrevka Very much so. Same is true of gay men and straight women. What we find attractive overlaps a lot, but there's some qualities that I find attractive in women that most men give zero shits about.
having meaningful conversations? 😉
you know what gets me good is if a state recognizes 31 genders or more ..... how do they perform studies ?
studies are racist and sexist so don't do them
It is really sad to see how much of the lgbt community treats bisexual people though. Like they're traitors, or just afraid to commit to 'truly being gay'. Same shit with some asshole guys telling lesbians they're wrong.
@Rabbi Shekels put everyone that isn't male or female in their own category
/solved
If states recognise X genders,
Invent a new one, and claim oppression, if they recognise it too, invent a new one
Repeat this until no one can tell the difference because the "indentifying signs" overlap with other genders
@Aktriaz but that LGBTABCDEFGHI etc - phobic
I say we start a new LGBT but it's for straight people only so that these problems are avoided.
It's kind of always been that way. Nothing new. Just more focus on it now because it's the "least gay" of all the LGBT orientations. Like, the amount of people who have said to me, "You've dated a trans person, therefore you're not bi, you're pansexual" is ridiculous.
They lost me at A or I or whichever came first
the amount of people that actually do that is incredibly small
No, they lost me at T
@Tits McGee little details to de legitimize
like trannies are a thing anyway
Also why did they feel the need to add Q?????????????????
That line of thinking really contradicts the idea that trans people are... transitioned from one gender to the other
Q is all of them?????????????
What the fuck
it should just be Gay-Bi
GB
I'm 99% sure no
you know, I don't get why the T is there in the first place
Lesbian, Bisexual and Gay are all sexualities, while Transgenderism is a mental condition
cuz Lesbians are gay wamen, so its the same
For me , Q was supposed to be Questioning. Someone who knew they weren't straight, but hadn't quite figured it out yet. Queer I don't understand at all. I don't like the word.
and Trans people don't exist
Queer has just become a catch-all for people who can't find a fitting label, or aren't satisfied with a normal one like 'gay'
ooh, fucks who wanna stand out, from the people who stand out
Or instead of GB, just... Q
WeAreQ
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Qtim-non
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I would have loved a "questioning" identity in high school. I thought I was a lesbian for several years before I came to terms with my bisexuality. I felt like I had to choose, and so I accidentally became of those "pretendbians" that lesbians hate so much. I didn't give myself time to figure it out and the community was so "supportive" that it actually ended up pressuring me into picking a label for myself that didn't really fit.
@Tits McGee why pick a label , you like what you like why does everyone else's opinion matter to you
""supportive"" 😂
How many Qs are straight but don't want to admit it?
I really do worry for the younger people who in the past would have been considered lesbians, or even just tom boys who are now being pushed towards transitioning to male, and vice versa
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@Tits McGee the only person's opinion that should matter to you is the person you are being intimate with
Like I'm sure there are some who can make the decision and be happy with it at that age, but so many people really struggle with identity during puberty and making a life altering decision isn't something many of them can fully understand the impact of