Yep

Yeah screw that

Still waiting for them to settle completely

Idk what pol is?

Idk what r/all is

I’m the new guy and I feel stupid

Yep

But my isp has reddit blocked so I have to use data, and or a different WiFi network and I just am not on it much.

Sounds about right.

I can’t say I was raped but I can say I was sexually assaulted, this however is still wrong, I think we as people should want justice for victims but we do not work outside the law. This saddens me and gives me zero joy.

Maybe that was to deep, In the end I can only speak for myself and no one else, but this is wrong, if he’s a rapist, lock him up and give to him what he deserves and I can understand hate and anger but this is wrong.

I’ve done that

And it probably is a bit sociopathic but when you’ve been hurt like that you don’t think rationally

I know I would never hurt my abuser, and I hope to some day talk to him again now that he’s an adult, but it’s not something you think in the heat of the moment

I think wishing harm isn’t uncommon.

However physically beating someone is wrong

Morally but also legally.

Again though, I can only speak for myself.

Which is why your a sane person

You wanted to but you would never do it. Because you like most sane people know it wouldn’t accomplish anything but possibly sending you to jail.

Let the law do what the law is supposed too it’s not your job.

See in my shoes I knew one hundred percent. The difference was I was younger and so I was watched 24/7 in the off chance I did snap and tried to attack them.

Maybe it’ll make me sound like like I’m coward but I was more scared of them than anything and tbh probably still am too scared of them to even try hosting a conversation

Just at some point got to move on.

True

I’m not a judge, I am not law enforcement, in my mind it’s not my job.

I can say I don’t like how it works or I don’t like this and that but it won’t change anything by complaining you change by doing and this is a battle I just don’t have energy left to give I guess

It’s 4 am here

I should sleep

Same

Terfs are and always have been sociopaths

Is it actually correct that r/mensrights has more subs then r/feminism?

That’s what I saw but I thought I was looking at something wrong or something

That actually seems crazy to me.

They are disorganized everyone is feminism and no one is feminism at He same time.

They don’t agree that’s their issue

It’s just “women want to be equal (in whatever we deem right at that moment, and however we feel like doing it)”

They are unorganized

We just have to take are small victories.

I like to think of myself as an egalitarian, I know women have had issues in the past, and even still do today, but they aren’t serious hard pressing issues and they worry about non existent ones I like many people can’t take them seriously

And when they bash people I hate it.

I just want equality unfortunately that’s not what femism is pushing for anymore, so I can’t side with them, and right now we need to talk about men’s issues, it is long overdue.

Yep

And just the general hate

At some point it stopped being a movement for rights and started becoming an echo chamber for hate.

And that was quite a while ago

Okay...

And your point is?

Like are you implying I’m not?

It’s just stupid arguments

Or when you bring up men’s issues and they say “we are working on that but it’s the patriarchy and toxic masculinity that causes that, you can’t blame us, we didn’t make the laws.”

It’s just like “My issue your fault, your problem”


“Your issue, your fault, your problem.”

I’ve seen one feminist not hate men’s rights

She blew it right after when she started talking about how if a male gets raped and talks about then they are taking away from the “real” issue, but that’s another beef for another time.

I honestly would love male birth control

Not because I don’t trust women just because I think it would be nice to have that control.

Plus if I don’t have to put that on my partner that’s a plus

TRT?

I’ll pass on that much

Something more... temporary would be nice 😛

Yep

They do kinda go hand in hand (unfortunately for male birth control) but hey, medical science is great, so maybe someday.

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I need advice unrelated to this discord, random chick who I haven’t talked to in years is now having a mental breakdown appears to be suffering from DID (I’m not a doctor though) and she’s sending me lots of pictures and hitting on me and kinda acting, well like a creep

I’ve always wanted to be hit on, but not like this, she flirting in really creepy ways and I don’t know how to tell her.

I’m trying to be supportive and calm and my ex was pretty unstable at points and had panic attacks but this is just frigin weird

I have zero idea what to do

She’s literally acting like she is in a state of mania.

But esrlier was crying and quite clearly shaken

Possibly bipolar, but I don’t know what I’m dealing with and it’s not my job to fix her nor am I a professional

I don’t think it’s an attention thing, but I do think something in this picture is screwed up

Possibly under the influence, but her friend says she is sober

What do I say!?

Do I tell her she is acting like a creep or will that push her over the edge? She’s hours away so I’m not worried about her harming me but I’m worried about her harming herself.

I knew this chick for about two weeks, two years ago and besides casual hi’s we haven’t talked at all

I’m just about her hurting someone. Or herself.

Yes but she is just acting kinda pissy at me for not wanting to be a psychologist

Because I’m not one.

She has a boyfriend

Welp I told her what I thought and how I just needed to take care of myself and I couldn’t commit to being her best friend (apperently she wanted me to be her friend)

And I get....

“Are you serious she’s going to cry couldn’t you just say you were long distance friends and you won’t be able to talk much. “ from her best friend and what used to be my friend

I’m I the asshole here?

I don’t even know why they are so unstable

Like I guess they had a disagreement with their mom but it wasn’t abusive apparently so like?!

Whatever, guess I just lost 1 friend plus an old acquaintance.

Maybe I just have shit luck with girls but like hey, I got hit on, so I can cross that off my bucket list

I don’t think this has anything to do with gender and everything to do with personality

I mean I feel lonely heck I feel lonely right now, it’s kinda why I’m here

But she was sleeping over at a friends place, why bother getting in drama with me

I’m just so torn up about this

Everyone knows I’m easily manipulated and guilt tripped and the worst part is that it’s true

Like I feel so guilty

So I guess here is the update, her friend hates me, and she texted me this morning but seems unstable after last night, so I have them both set to ignore. I’m not 100% confident, but I think this is the right thing

I mean she ghosted me years ago when we were actually friends which is why we stopped talking so I don’t feel I owe it to her.

I was doing work stuff and she texted me and asked me to call her

I thought she was in trouble so I stepped outside and she got on the phone with me and was having a breakdown about something.