Like if you want answers, be honest and ask for answers, whatever you get back will help you determine if she's actually mentally ill or just stressed or something

Probably not the case but I have seen it happen before where a woman will get herself into some sort of trouble (financially, for example) and start desperately reaching out to male acquaintances. Someone she can seduce is someone who will rescue her

Yep, just be cautious.

She has a boyfriend

Then that makes the fact that she's sending pictures and hitting on you even weirder

Welp I told her what I thought and how I just needed to take care of myself and I couldn’t commit to being her best friend (apperently she wanted me to be her friend)

And I get....

“Are you serious she’s going to cry couldn’t you just say you were long distance friends and you won’t be able to talk much. “ from her best friend and what used to be my friend

Well you said what was needed man.

I’m I the asshole here?

Evidently not. This person seems quite hostile and not understanding.

I don’t even know why they are so unstable

Like I guess they had a disagreement with their mom but it wasn’t abusive apparently so like?!

Whatever, guess I just lost 1 friend plus an old acquaintance.

Maybe I just have shit luck with girls but like hey, I got hit on, so I can cross that off my bucket list

I don’t think this has anything to do with gender and everything to do with personality

I can understand being lonely but it seems a bit weird to reach out to people you haven't talked to in years to satisfy your own loneliness

I mean if I haven't talked to someone in literal years I don't think it'd be fair to them to contact them with expectations

Right.

I mean I feel lonely heck I feel lonely right now, it’s kinda why I’m here

But she was sleeping over at a friends place, why bother getting in drama with me

I’m just so torn up about this

It’s alright man. We’ve all been there.

Everyone knows I’m easily manipulated and guilt tripped and the worst part is that it’s true

Like I feel so guilty

It's not your fault man, I very seriously doubt that if the situation were reversed she would be feeling guilty about turning you down

To quote an argument I've seen used far too often, "You don't owe her anything"

Her friend even saying "She's going to cry" is just an attempt to guilt you and you're letting it work

Moral of the story is you're allowed to say "no" too, and don't let yourself be tricked into believing you're not @Thedemogamer💙

@Thedemogamer💙 That sounds like a real pain.

Hello @Niven81 and @Choi Utama !

Thanks for having me

@Niven81 No worries. 🙂

So, what's going on tonight, everyone?

Not much if I'm honest, just browsing the web. Might go for a nice session of simracing, though.

Simracing?

Realistic racing games. Really awesome hobby.

Pretty much the digital simulated version of driving a car