Message from @Thedemogamerđź’™
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Exactly, I wouldn’t entertain her for too long manS
Possibly under the influence, but her friend says she is sober
What do I say!?
Well I don’t know the extent of the relationship. If I were in your situation, I would say that I am busy working at the moment and just leave it at that.
Do I tell her she is acting like a creep or will that push her over the edge? She’s hours away so I’m not worried about her harming me but I’m worried about her harming herself.
I knew this chick for about two weeks, two years ago and besides casual hi’s we haven’t talked at all
Depending on the direction of the conversation, I might also block her. I’m honestly not one who entertains disturbed individuals
I’m just about her hurting someone. Or herself.
Well try to help with that if there is a clear indication that she really is. She has her friend with her right?
Yes but she is just acting kinda pissy at me for not wanting to be a psychologist
Because I’m not one.
Then she should speak with oneđź‘˝
I would just honestly ask what's going on, tell her it's unusual and suspicious
Yeah, maybe start with that, if she is unwilling to answer honestly, I wouldn’t entertain her.
Like if you want answers, be honest and ask for answers, whatever you get back will help you determine if she's actually mentally ill or just stressed or something
Probably not the case but I have seen it happen before where a woman will get herself into some sort of trouble (financially, for example) and start desperately reaching out to male acquaintances. Someone she can seduce is someone who will rescue her
Yep, just be cautious.
She has a boyfriend
Then that makes the fact that she's sending pictures and hitting on you even weirder
Welp I told her what I thought and how I just needed to take care of myself and I couldn’t commit to being her best friend (apperently she wanted me to be her friend)
“Are you serious she’s going to cry couldn’t you just say you were long distance friends and you won’t be able to talk much. “ from her best friend and what used to be my friend
Well you said what was needed man.
I’m I the asshole here?
Evidently not. This person seems quite hostile and not understanding.
I don’t even know why they are so unstable
Like I guess they had a disagreement with their mom but it wasn’t abusive apparently so like?!
Whatever, guess I just lost 1 friend plus an old acquaintance.
Maybe I just have shit luck with girls but like hey, I got hit on, so I can cross that off my bucket list
I don’t think this has anything to do with gender and everything to do with personality
I can understand being lonely but it seems a bit weird to reach out to people you haven't talked to in years to satisfy your own loneliness
I mean if I haven't talked to someone in literal years I don't think it'd be fair to them to contact them with expectations
Right.
I mean I feel lonely heck I feel lonely right now, it’s kinda why I’m here
But she was sleeping over at a friends place, why bother getting in drama with me
I’m just so torn up about this
It’s alright man. We’ve all been there.
Everyone knows I’m easily manipulated and guilt tripped and the worst part is that it’s true
Like I feel so guilty
It's not your fault man, I very seriously doubt that if the situation were reversed she would be feeling guilty about turning you down