@Mush Today I am glad I don't live in the Chicago suburbs anymore.

It is freezing 🥶

it's too damn hot

Any female allys in this server?

well I am female but I wouldn't call myself an ally, I would just straight up say I am a Men's rights activist xD

Hey guys! Happy to be here

Hi @Avistew

Hey @Skwərl

With a schwa in your name

@Avistew I thought the IPA spelling would be cool.

It is cool. And makes more sense than the actual spelling.

Which looks like it should be 2 syllables

Nice!

Webster says there is another optional schwa before the "l". I spelled it so it is like "swirl" but with the "qu" sound.

Squirrel

Aye.

I need advice unrelated to this discord, random chick who I haven’t talked to in years is now having a mental breakdown appears to be suffering from DID (I’m not a doctor though) and she’s sending me lots of pictures and hitting on me and kinda acting, well like a creep

I’ve always wanted to be hit on, but not like this, she flirting in really creepy ways and I don’t know how to tell her.

Might be dealing with an unstable individual potentially borderline. I’d tread lightly.

I’m trying to be supportive and calm and my ex was pretty unstable at points and had panic attacks but this is just frigin weird

I have zero idea what to do

She’s literally acting like she is in a state of mania.

Yeah, that’s concerning.

But esrlier was crying and quite clearly shaken

She obviously wants attention

Possibly bipolar, but I don’t know what I’m dealing with and it’s not my job to fix her nor am I a professional

I don’t think it’s an attention thing, but I do think something in this picture is screwed up

Exactly, I wouldn’t entertain her for too long manS

Possibly under the influence, but her friend says she is sober

What do I say!?

Well I don’t know the extent of the relationship. If I were in your situation, I would say that I am busy working at the moment and just leave it at that.

Do I tell her she is acting like a creep or will that push her over the edge? She’s hours away so I’m not worried about her harming me but I’m worried about her harming herself.

I knew this chick for about two weeks, two years ago and besides casual hi’s we haven’t talked at all

Depending on the direction of the conversation, I might also block her. I’m honestly not one who entertains disturbed individuals

I’m just about her hurting someone. Or herself.

Well try to help with that if there is a clear indication that she really is. She has her friend with her right?

Yes but she is just acting kinda pissy at me for not wanting to be a psychologist

Because I’m not one.

Then she should speak with one👽

I would just honestly ask what's going on, tell her it's unusual and suspicious