no i mean it's probably too late for her to have kids full stop.

She needs to think about her own future, but I won't say this to her or she'll lash out at me

as in she's no longer part of the game. it's impossible. that would suck.

@Cascade well I was under the impression her ex died a long time ago. If it was recent, then yeah she needs time to get over it, sure.

Oh well idk anything about her

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/205974269249716224/634909379203956766/joka.mp4

What SPQR said was that her eggs are still good, in other words, it's only too late for her to get a Chad as good as the one she had.

But it's not too late for her to get a decent guy who isn't as good, for the sake of her race.

oh ok

incels should be yelled at

and mgtows should be banned from the internet

But she could be lying, and just can't cope.

Alright so what should one do? NEVER marry?

assuming her eggs are still good and she can't find someone, if i was her i'd freeze the shit outta those eggs quick.

Guys, I'll ask for your enlightened advice, Ive been in a relationship 5 years now, and she really wants to marry, and she has traditional christian values, (BIG plus) but Im nervous as hell that things will go to shit once we're married, the sex stops and we get bored asf.

That's kinda stupid. I know I'll never get what I had but my standards have changed

Best thing for old women to do if they can't have kids is to invest in her siblings kids or other family members.

But still it's got to be very psychologically taxing if they never have one of their own.

Im torn as fuck over this issue for the past few months and no idea what to do 😦

@Deleted User she says she will only have kids once married.

trad values, but Im worried

why not get married?

I feel bad for women who get alpha widowed. But they shouldn't use that as an excuse not to reproduce. They just have to suck up their pride and settle for less. Because less is better than nothing.

@Blake4014 that's the risk you take as a man, her risk is not getting an education and depending on some dude

yeh thats what I keep asking myself, so far shes given me no cause to distrust her or be alarmed @Deleted User

@Blake4014 , what's the diference? will she stop fingering your asshole when she marries you? lmao. like really tho i don't understand what you're worried about if you're perfectly good with eachother. a marriae would just enshrine something that already exists.

life is hard, but you still have to live it

but Im nervous as fuck about the whole idea. What if the stereotype is true that things go stale and we are one of the 70% of divorces and I lost some of my shit.

@Deleted User I thought about that man, but her parents are edging her as well for us to marry, drives me bonkers.

@Blake4014 are you christian?

I love her but man, the risk and overthinking shit really does get to me. I dunno, some advice is "just do it" and deal with it as it comes, and not on "what ifs" seemed good advice.

@stem nah but she is.

She's worried you'll cheat on her when she's older

@Blake4014 if you're worried she's gonna change, you don't trust her. if you don't trust her it's not gonna last, if it's not gonna last get that seed in her quick. lmao

@Blake4014 marriage won't improve the relationship, you will still have to work at it just like when you're dating.

Do you want to be with her for the rest of your life @Blake4014 ?

Get her pregnant first, then commit.

Its high enough I mean most people in UK dont get married anymore because of it.

yeh THAT is what makes me nervous too, its almost a cliche stereotype these days that marriage ruins and goes stale after a while @Deleted User

Scares me to shit.

@Wesker if she DOES not change then yeh.

man up. do it or don't.

Then marry her

@Wesker Im worried about her going off me, getting bored, or something, I dunno.

People will always change over time and so will you

I guess so man, thanks for your advice. everyone.

WHo cares she might have the same fears but if she feels just like you in wanting to be with you for the rest of her life then go for it

@Blake4014 marriage won't affect the staleness. It will probably go stale anyway if you don't marry.

Wish I could @Trommm she wont she said till married.

You just both have to decide as a couple that creating a family is more important than your individual happiness, because you will both be unhappy at times.

yeh man, lots of contradicting but good thoughts insights here thank you good bros before hoes crew! 😄

it is logical from her perspective to want a commitment

Just go for it

I'm slightly leaning towards "just do it" atm

What othe relationship that you want to be life lasting would you lose because of it?

Tell her you will marry her if she gets pregnant.

Then she can get off the pill.

If the answer is none and you think shes the one to spend the rest of your life with then just go for it

Get her off the fucking pill

Now

Might backfire @Trommm I dunno, her parents are religious so they'd be outraged I think, but then again its a good calulated risk to take.

Stupid boomer

lol yeh might try that first.

There is no, "the one". All women take effort, time, money, etc. Find one that you're willing to reproduce with then put in the effort. You can't think about happiness, because you won't be.

I wont be happy? lol

scary Trommm

When I asked my bro, he said "Freedom is overrated, commit" lol

Stop taking advice from people on discord

I guess it makes sense.

You'll be happy with creating a family, but don't expect better sex or less fighting or less shit testing because of a marriage.

Talking from experience dude? You seem to know. @Trommm

Expect less sex

that's what scares me too lool @Cascade

Im 33

but guys, I think I'm just gonna go for it.

and be careful and hide my assets,

@Blake4014 I haven't been married, so take it with a grain of salt. But I've had plenty of LTRs.

incase it doesnt work

yeh, best have an insurance policy no matter how rosy things seem at the moment.

Don't hide stuff for your wife

With time in an LTR things get boring. You still fight, etc. Marriage won't fix any of that.

Thats where it goes wrong in schemes and all that shit

You shouldn't even be talking about your insecurities with us but with your wife instead

Don't larp as some poor dude

If that happens I'd be so mad @Deleted User

That could kill her attraction

But hide some of your monay

yeh, I just hope it doesnt get WORSE than it is now, more, I dunno, hellish, as the stereotype often tells us @Trommm

@Deleted User hiding your wealth seems like a good idea, but I don't see how you really can with a woman all up in your life. You could try to hide it in crypto, but that's more volatile than females.

@Wesker never tell your woman your inner feelings, they can use it aganist you.

@Blake4014 do you live with her?

yeh I can hide it, i have family I can trust.

In my experience living with a woman caused less sex. But I didn't own the living space, so that might affect it.

lived with her 2 years so far @Trommm

Yeh Im thinking that does make a difference too @Trommm

@Blake4014 do you live with her?

If ur worried about your women using shit against you then don't marry her

@Deleted User yeh my inclination was natural revolt at the idea of marriage, but Im running out of options.

yes they do @Deleted User they literally badger her to have kids.

😂

I feel like if you own the house, then the sex would be non stop because you could just tell her to get out.

they want grandkids.