assuming her eggs are still good and she can't find someone, if i was her i'd freeze the shit outta those eggs quick.

Guys, I'll ask for your enlightened advice, Ive been in a relationship 5 years now, and she really wants to marry, and she has traditional christian values, (BIG plus) but Im nervous as hell that things will go to shit once we're married, the sex stops and we get bored asf.

That's kinda stupid. I know I'll never get what I had but my standards have changed

Best thing for old women to do if they can't have kids is to invest in her siblings kids or other family members.

But still it's got to be very psychologically taxing if they never have one of their own.

Im torn as fuck over this issue for the past few months and no idea what to do 😦

@Deleted User she says she will only have kids once married.

trad values, but Im worried

why not get married?

I feel bad for women who get alpha widowed. But they shouldn't use that as an excuse not to reproduce. They just have to suck up their pride and settle for less. Because less is better than nothing.

@Blake4014 that's the risk you take as a man, her risk is not getting an education and depending on some dude

yeh thats what I keep asking myself, so far shes given me no cause to distrust her or be alarmed @Deleted User

@Blake4014 , what's the diference? will she stop fingering your asshole when she marries you? lmao. like really tho i don't understand what you're worried about if you're perfectly good with eachother. a marriae would just enshrine something that already exists.

life is hard, but you still have to live it

but Im nervous as fuck about the whole idea. What if the stereotype is true that things go stale and we are one of the 70% of divorces and I lost some of my shit.

@Deleted User I thought about that man, but her parents are edging her as well for us to marry, drives me bonkers.

@Blake4014 are you christian?

I love her but man, the risk and overthinking shit really does get to me. I dunno, some advice is "just do it" and deal with it as it comes, and not on "what ifs" seemed good advice.

@stem nah but she is.

She's worried you'll cheat on her when she's older

@Blake4014 if you're worried she's gonna change, you don't trust her. if you don't trust her it's not gonna last, if it's not gonna last get that seed in her quick. lmao

@Blake4014 marriage won't improve the relationship, you will still have to work at it just like when you're dating.

Do you want to be with her for the rest of your life @Blake4014 ?

Get her pregnant first, then commit.

Its high enough I mean most people in UK dont get married anymore because of it.

yeh THAT is what makes me nervous too, its almost a cliche stereotype these days that marriage ruins and goes stale after a while @Deleted User

Scares me to shit.

@Wesker if she DOES not change then yeh.

man up. do it or don't.

Then marry her

@Wesker Im worried about her going off me, getting bored, or something, I dunno.

People will always change over time and so will you

I guess so man, thanks for your advice. everyone.

WHo cares she might have the same fears but if she feels just like you in wanting to be with you for the rest of her life then go for it

@Blake4014 marriage won't affect the staleness. It will probably go stale anyway if you don't marry.

Wish I could @Trommm she wont she said till married.

You just both have to decide as a couple that creating a family is more important than your individual happiness, because you will both be unhappy at times.

yeh man, lots of contradicting but good thoughts insights here thank you good bros before hoes crew! 😄

it is logical from her perspective to want a commitment

Just go for it

I'm slightly leaning towards "just do it" atm

What othe relationship that you want to be life lasting would you lose because of it?