You just both have to decide as a couple that creating a family is more important than your individual happiness, because you will both be unhappy at times.

yeh man, lots of contradicting but good thoughts insights here thank you good bros before hoes crew! 😄

it is logical from her perspective to want a commitment

Just go for it

I'm slightly leaning towards "just do it" atm

What othe relationship that you want to be life lasting would you lose because of it?

Tell her you will marry her if she gets pregnant.

Then she can get off the pill.

If the answer is none and you think shes the one to spend the rest of your life with then just go for it

Get her off the fucking pill

Now

Might backfire @Trommm I dunno, her parents are religious so they'd be outraged I think, but then again its a good calulated risk to take.

Stupid boomer

lol yeh might try that first.

There is no, "the one". All women take effort, time, money, etc. Find one that you're willing to reproduce with then put in the effort. You can't think about happiness, because you won't be.

I wont be happy? lol

scary Trommm

When I asked my bro, he said "Freedom is overrated, commit" lol

Stop taking advice from people on discord

I guess it makes sense.

You'll be happy with creating a family, but don't expect better sex or less fighting or less shit testing because of a marriage.

Talking from experience dude? You seem to know. @Trommm

Expect less sex

that's what scares me too lool @Cascade

Im 33

but guys, I think I'm just gonna go for it.

and be careful and hide my assets,

@Blake4014 I haven't been married, so take it with a grain of salt. But I've had plenty of LTRs.

incase it doesnt work

yeh, best have an insurance policy no matter how rosy things seem at the moment.

Don't hide stuff for your wife

With time in an LTR things get boring. You still fight, etc. Marriage won't fix any of that.

Thats where it goes wrong in schemes and all that shit

You shouldn't even be talking about your insecurities with us but with your wife instead

Don't larp as some poor dude

If that happens I'd be so mad @Deleted User

That could kill her attraction

But hide some of your monay

yeh, I just hope it doesnt get WORSE than it is now, more, I dunno, hellish, as the stereotype often tells us @Trommm

@Deleted User hiding your wealth seems like a good idea, but I don't see how you really can with a woman all up in your life. You could try to hide it in crypto, but that's more volatile than females.

@Wesker never tell your woman your inner feelings, they can use it aganist you.