With time in an LTR things get boring. You still fight, etc. Marriage won't fix any of that.

Thats where it goes wrong in schemes and all that shit

You shouldn't even be talking about your insecurities with us but with your wife instead

Don't larp as some poor dude

If that happens I'd be so mad @Deleted User

That could kill her attraction

But hide some of your monay

yeh, I just hope it doesnt get WORSE than it is now, more, I dunno, hellish, as the stereotype often tells us @Trommm

@Deleted User hiding your wealth seems like a good idea, but I don't see how you really can with a woman all up in your life. You could try to hide it in crypto, but that's more volatile than females.

@Wesker never tell your woman your inner feelings, they can use it aganist you.

@Blake4014 do you live with her?

yeh I can hide it, i have family I can trust.

In my experience living with a woman caused less sex. But I didn't own the living space, so that might affect it.

lived with her 2 years so far @Trommm

Yeh Im thinking that does make a difference too @Trommm

@Blake4014 do you live with her?

If ur worried about your women using shit against you then don't marry her

@Deleted User yeh my inclination was natural revolt at the idea of marriage, but Im running out of options.

yes they do @Deleted User they literally badger her to have kids.

😂

I feel like if you own the house, then the sex would be non stop because you could just tell her to get out.

they want grandkids.

It's only reasonable that the women you want to spend the rest of your life with is one you can trust

Own the house

@Wesker Wesker, there is no spending the rest of your life with a woman. Get that out of your head. Women will betray you fast.

@Wesker its more complex than that dude, laying your heart on the line can easily get you fucked over, best to be calulating and logical from a distance, seek advice from the bros before hoes crew and make a good choice.

Conspiring on discord against your wife isn't really the start of a healthy relationship

@Wesker seeking advice isnt conspiring lool

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"Get her off the pill dude"

A relationship is not a guarantee in the modern world. Your primary focus should be do you want to create a human with her? If she's hot enough that you want her to have your genetics, then it is worth the risks.

@Deleted User @Trommm @Cascade You guys are the shit, thanks for all your great insights, advice and thoughts. given me something to ponder. Cheers.

A relationship was never guaranteed

Especially not guaranteed to be satisfying

Good luck bruh

blake what is your problem

The difference is that in the past people stuck together even if it wasn't satisfying.

do u want to listen to autists?

I would just get over satisfaction now, because that's not what it's about.

Satisfaction comes from knowing you had a kid with a hot woman. Having a successful long term relationship with that woman is optional, and will take effort.

They can or they will?

You act as if people are getting together just to fill in a form and get less taxes