Message from @Trommm
Discord ID: 635109759158190090
@Wesker Im worried about her going off me, getting bored, or something, I dunno.
People will always change over time and so will you
I guess so man, thanks for your advice. everyone.
WHo cares she might have the same fears but if she feels just like you in wanting to be with you for the rest of her life then go for it
@Blake4014 marriage won't affect the staleness. It will probably go stale anyway if you don't marry.
You just both have to decide as a couple that creating a family is more important than your individual happiness, because you will both be unhappy at times.
yeh man, lots of contradicting but good thoughts insights here thank you good bros before hoes crew! 😄
it is logical from her perspective to want a commitment
Just go for it
I'm slightly leaning towards "just do it" atm
What othe relationship that you want to be life lasting would you lose because of it?
Tell her you will marry her if she gets pregnant.
Then she can get off the pill.
If the answer is none and you think shes the one to spend the rest of your life with then just go for it
Get her off the fucking pill
Now
Might backfire @Trommm I dunno, her parents are religious so they'd be outraged I think, but then again its a good calulated risk to take.
Stupid boomer
lol yeh might try that first.
There is no, "the one". All women take effort, time, money, etc. Find one that you're willing to reproduce with then put in the effort. You can't think about happiness, because you won't be.
I wont be happy? lol
scary Trommm
When I asked my bro, he said "Freedom is overrated, commit" lol
Stop taking advice from people on discord
I guess it makes sense.
You'll be happy with creating a family, but don't expect better sex or less fighting or less shit testing because of a marriage.
Expect less sex
Im 33
but guys, I think I'm just gonna go for it.
and be careful and hide my assets,
@Blake4014 I haven't been married, so take it with a grain of salt. But I've had plenty of LTRs.
incase it doesnt work
yeh, best have an insurance policy no matter how rosy things seem at the moment.
Don't hide stuff for your wife
With time in an LTR things get boring. You still fight, etc. Marriage won't fix any of that.
Thats where it goes wrong in schemes and all that shit
You shouldn't even be talking about your insecurities with us but with your wife instead
Don't larp as some poor dude