Haha damn

It's a genetic trait that was used to weed out the weak mates

Back when we were like early homosapians

Some fancy biological stuff there

You can see it in action with that men vs women survivor show they had in the UK

Do u mean the island by bear grylls

Nah m8 let me find it

https://youtu.be/JnNJpwf4m7s

Oh damn didn't see that

Coz bear grylls split em up as well

Yeah it's from a MGTOW channel but this does show how women will refuse help from one that knows her shit and how to survive because they perceive her as a threat

Ouch

The solution to the gender division isnt more division it's learning from each other, listening to eachother and finding common ground

@Bobby_Hill That's exactly what I think. 😃

Just coming back from a crappy relationship involving yelling and false claims, and a lot of lies, guess she never loved me from the start and was dating me for my friends, thought she was lying to feel better about herself but asked around and found out it was the truth :/ it’s been like 5 months I’m still not over her but I don’t want her back so I don’t know why I feel this why, I also learned so much more about myself when I was with her (like getting much more into stuff I’m passionate about including the mrm) but now, I don’t know what to believe, I know I believe in the MRM but I just don’t know what to do with my life, and my views ect.

"it’s been like 5 months I’m still not over her but I don’t want her back so I don’t know why I feel this way" That sounds super normal. At very minimum it should be understandable to want things back the way they were, and even a crappy relationship can be dear to a person

I mean, ask me what to do now and I'd just say MGTOW (not so much because of this particular situation as because of what the rest of relationships are), but that isn't necessarily a feasible/reasonable answer to give.

So my commiserations to you sir

Personally after a relationship ends for me Ive found it good to focus on myself for a while. Focus on rebuilding your image of who you are and not just who you are within the frame of that relationship. It has helped me feel better again

False claims seem to be something a lot of people experience here, @Thedemogamer💙 , I'm sorry you had to go through those!

It looks like you may just be putting your life back together, so maybe take it easy for a while if you can.

oh man, i just starting reading here and it appears i'm not alone. right now my stbx is attacking me on her social media. false accusations and alleged dv (which i was never charged for). and my dumb naive ass was feeling sorry for her and thinking of actually calling her to see if we can end this amicably. but she's not holding back and even posting pics i had absolutely nothing to do with and some even look photoshopped! I really don't give a shit about her what her social media army thinks of me but now i realize she wants to see me suffer as miserably as possible. i'm shocked but i should have seen this coming.

i been looking for support because i feel clueless and now i know how i naive and stupid i've been. i don't have anyone for any emotional support which i am embarrased to admit as a man. but so be it. my parents are only thinking of how embarassing this is to the family or how much this is gonna cost. my friends are far away, married. i tried contacting an extended family member going through something similar and i got good advice but also i seemed to have made him very upset and maybe embarassed.

That sucks... You think you know people but then things happen and they turn out to be totally different

ok, i just tried get support via chat on a site offering support and now i feel even worse than before. and i suspect bias against me as a man

Sue her for defamation or whatever

My ex-wife did the same thing, told people I beat the crap out of her, etc.

on social media?

Yeah, it was myspace a long time ago

I didn't sue, because it didn't affect me much.

However, if it is, I'd say do it

i'm trying to avoid further confrontation or provoking her in any manner because she is extremely vindictive and hostile - not only to me but to just about everyone that slights her, real or imagined

It's unfortunate but quite a few places for types of support only really support women and treat men as abusers

i thought maybe there was some chance to speak to her and try somehow to avoid an expensive divorce because we are both right now in debt with no income. but she seems very determined to want to see me suffer as much as possible

i am concerned that she will falsely accuse me of DV from these pictures she took years ago. is that a possibility, no police reports or witnesses. just photos, some of which are obviously photoshopped or i had absolutely nothing to do with

?

i went from amicable and possibly affordable dissolution to potential drawn out hostile divorce and bankruptcy in a week. wtf

and now this fabricated, public shaming

You have a strong libel case - especially if you can prove it was photoshoped. I've had some training in spotting fakes, so if you want to DM me some I can probably tell you.

Hug needed 😔

*gives you a hug and a cat*

Cat comes with unlimited hugs!

I like cats! I saw my friends kitty today and it was adorable.

🥰

I want the kittiez

I too am a fan of cats

My best buds were cats but I'm not good with cat litter maintenance

Use feline pine. Absorbs most of the smell and relatively safe if you flush a few pellets when you get rid of solid waste. I keep the box next to the toilet.

Dogs are my favorite kind of pet but cat's are cool also.

ahh, i have a crush

....cool

@Bobby_Hill she invited me to go to the dance today

the dance is on Friday idk if ill go

your lucky! i never went to my dance because no girl would want to dance with the autist with 1-1 aides

downside is shes taking some other gals

i just join the crew

Good luck, man.

there will be like 3 other girls there though (along with her and I)

They are hopefully not going to make things worse.

What's 1-1 aides?

the girl who asked me, i like her she likes me to

When I was I'm grade school

I got picked on by girls sometimes

basically a person who follows you around and makes sure you get your work done and shit

Everything is ok then!

she was talking about drawing me as a mario chareter and give me a valentime

Oh ok @Bobby_Hill

@TyDye what grade are you in again

I wonder if any of the girls that used to be mean toe regret it now

Like if it weighs on them

@Uberduperdrew probably not

I regret horrible stuff I did as a kid

@Bobby_Hill oh sorry, in grade 9

shes so nice, sweet, kind, EVERYTHING 😍

don't let your guard down

no ones else after her *hahahah*

she gets bullied and harrased alot and she has autism and the same has happened to me and i feel really bad for her

i have autism to

I wish you luck dude

though i think she said she has it more severe

i remember a few months ago she hugged me and before that i hadent been hugged sense 4th grade

she hugs me sometimes *without asking*

just be safe

you don't know how protective her parents are of her

you need to play it cool and play it safe

shes faster then i am

she asked me for my number and asked me to come to her house and play switch (i gave her my number but denied the 2nd) and yeee she says talks about me to her mommmm

I have experience with girls on the spectrum. i dated a girl with asphergers for 5 years starting when i was in 9th grade. after we broke up a few years ago i was the only one hurting. she cared less

she was talking to me about a cousin she lost and it was really sad, i talk to her about it and helped her out

you sound like a nice kid

I hope things turn out well for you

she dosent really know much stuff about sex and she says its gross (I think its gross to) and im glad thats mutual

remember to always value yourself highly

we also dont like when people talk about sexual stuff

*sorry sometimes we launguage police that*

you will be fine dude. just always be open with her and you will have a friend for life

maybe more in the future

it just wasn't meant to be for me...but mabey it is for you

shes the sweetest girl ive met