It looks like you may just be putting your life back together, so maybe take it easy for a while if you can.

oh man, i just starting reading here and it appears i'm not alone. right now my stbx is attacking me on her social media. false accusations and alleged dv (which i was never charged for). and my dumb naive ass was feeling sorry for her and thinking of actually calling her to see if we can end this amicably. but she's not holding back and even posting pics i had absolutely nothing to do with and some even look photoshopped! I really don't give a shit about her what her social media army thinks of me but now i realize she wants to see me suffer as miserably as possible. i'm shocked but i should have seen this coming.

i been looking for support because i feel clueless and now i know how i naive and stupid i've been. i don't have anyone for any emotional support which i am embarrased to admit as a man. but so be it. my parents are only thinking of how embarassing this is to the family or how much this is gonna cost. my friends are far away, married. i tried contacting an extended family member going through something similar and i got good advice but also i seemed to have made him very upset and maybe embarassed.

That sucks... You think you know people but then things happen and they turn out to be totally different

ok, i just tried get support via chat on a site offering support and now i feel even worse than before. and i suspect bias against me as a man

Sue her for defamation or whatever

My ex-wife did the same thing, told people I beat the crap out of her, etc.

on social media?

Yeah, it was myspace a long time ago

I didn't sue, because it didn't affect me much.

However, if it is, I'd say do it

i'm trying to avoid further confrontation or provoking her in any manner because she is extremely vindictive and hostile - not only to me but to just about everyone that slights her, real or imagined

It's unfortunate but quite a few places for types of support only really support women and treat men as abusers

i thought maybe there was some chance to speak to her and try somehow to avoid an expensive divorce because we are both right now in debt with no income. but she seems very determined to want to see me suffer as much as possible

i am concerned that she will falsely accuse me of DV from these pictures she took years ago. is that a possibility, no police reports or witnesses. just photos, some of which are obviously photoshopped or i had absolutely nothing to do with

?

i went from amicable and possibly affordable dissolution to potential drawn out hostile divorce and bankruptcy in a week. wtf

and now this fabricated, public shaming

You have a strong libel case - especially if you can prove it was photoshoped. I've had some training in spotting fakes, so if you want to DM me some I can probably tell you.

Hug needed 😔

*gives you a hug and a cat*

Cat comes with unlimited hugs!

I like cats! I saw my friends kitty today and it was adorable.

🥰

I want the kittiez

I too am a fan of cats

My best buds were cats but I'm not good with cat litter maintenance

Use feline pine. Absorbs most of the smell and relatively safe if you flush a few pellets when you get rid of solid waste. I keep the box next to the toilet.

Dogs are my favorite kind of pet but cat's are cool also.

ahh, i have a crush

....cool

@Bobby_Hill she invited me to go to the dance today

the dance is on Friday idk if ill go

your lucky! i never went to my dance because no girl would want to dance with the autist with 1-1 aides

downside is shes taking some other gals

i just join the crew

Good luck, man.

there will be like 3 other girls there though (along with her and I)

They are hopefully not going to make things worse.

What's 1-1 aides?