Nah m8 let me find it

https://youtu.be/JnNJpwf4m7s

Oh damn didn't see that

Coz bear grylls split em up as well

Yeah it's from a MGTOW channel but this does show how women will refuse help from one that knows her shit and how to survive because they perceive her as a threat

Ouch

The solution to the gender division isnt more division it's learning from each other, listening to eachother and finding common ground

@Bobby_Hill That's exactly what I think. 😃

Just coming back from a crappy relationship involving yelling and false claims, and a lot of lies, guess she never loved me from the start and was dating me for my friends, thought she was lying to feel better about herself but asked around and found out it was the truth :/ it’s been like 5 months I’m still not over her but I don’t want her back so I don’t know why I feel this why, I also learned so much more about myself when I was with her (like getting much more into stuff I’m passionate about including the mrm) but now, I don’t know what to believe, I know I believe in the MRM but I just don’t know what to do with my life, and my views ect.

"it’s been like 5 months I’m still not over her but I don’t want her back so I don’t know why I feel this way" That sounds super normal. At very minimum it should be understandable to want things back the way they were, and even a crappy relationship can be dear to a person

I mean, ask me what to do now and I'd just say MGTOW (not so much because of this particular situation as because of what the rest of relationships are), but that isn't necessarily a feasible/reasonable answer to give.

So my commiserations to you sir

Personally after a relationship ends for me Ive found it good to focus on myself for a while. Focus on rebuilding your image of who you are and not just who you are within the frame of that relationship. It has helped me feel better again

False claims seem to be something a lot of people experience here, @Thedemogamer💙 , I'm sorry you had to go through those!

It looks like you may just be putting your life back together, so maybe take it easy for a while if you can.

oh man, i just starting reading here and it appears i'm not alone. right now my stbx is attacking me on her social media. false accusations and alleged dv (which i was never charged for). and my dumb naive ass was feeling sorry for her and thinking of actually calling her to see if we can end this amicably. but she's not holding back and even posting pics i had absolutely nothing to do with and some even look photoshopped! I really don't give a shit about her what her social media army thinks of me but now i realize she wants to see me suffer as miserably as possible. i'm shocked but i should have seen this coming.

i been looking for support because i feel clueless and now i know how i naive and stupid i've been. i don't have anyone for any emotional support which i am embarrased to admit as a man. but so be it. my parents are only thinking of how embarassing this is to the family or how much this is gonna cost. my friends are far away, married. i tried contacting an extended family member going through something similar and i got good advice but also i seemed to have made him very upset and maybe embarassed.

That sucks... You think you know people but then things happen and they turn out to be totally different

ok, i just tried get support via chat on a site offering support and now i feel even worse than before. and i suspect bias against me as a man

Sue her for defamation or whatever

My ex-wife did the same thing, told people I beat the crap out of her, etc.

on social media?

Yeah, it was myspace a long time ago

I didn't sue, because it didn't affect me much.

However, if it is, I'd say do it

i'm trying to avoid further confrontation or provoking her in any manner because she is extremely vindictive and hostile - not only to me but to just about everyone that slights her, real or imagined

It's unfortunate but quite a few places for types of support only really support women and treat men as abusers

i thought maybe there was some chance to speak to her and try somehow to avoid an expensive divorce because we are both right now in debt with no income. but she seems very determined to want to see me suffer as much as possible

i am concerned that she will falsely accuse me of DV from these pictures she took years ago. is that a possibility, no police reports or witnesses. just photos, some of which are obviously photoshopped or i had absolutely nothing to do with

?

i went from amicable and possibly affordable dissolution to potential drawn out hostile divorce and bankruptcy in a week. wtf

and now this fabricated, public shaming

You have a strong libel case - especially if you can prove it was photoshoped. I've had some training in spotting fakes, so if you want to DM me some I can probably tell you.

Hug needed 😔

*gives you a hug and a cat*

Cat comes with unlimited hugs!

I like cats! I saw my friends kitty today and it was adorable.

🥰

I want the kittiez

I too am a fan of cats