Its a commitment

The way I kinda put it was that people like "falling in love" not "being in love"

exactly

Love in a comitted relationship is a decision, not a feeling.

it takes 2 to tango

you fall in love, and after a while the magic runs out, and you just gotta pray you've grown fond enough of the other person to keep going 😄

and that they feel the same way

The honeymoon period will always end

in general the "fire of love" runs out within 5 years, and some make it to 8

Mind you the best closure I got was "I fell out of love with you" which was a kick in the throat 😂

after that you can still be fond of each other and stay together committed, but burning passion for decades is very rare

ok but seriously i dont even know what to search for to find out who is "on the ballot", i dont even know what im voting about

What she said was "Now that the emotion is gone, I don't want to commit to this relationship."

I can't be much help, in my nations mid-terms i vote for someone who's not establishment and has the funniest name

lol

Thats not a joke Vesdii, i did it for 2 elections now, and the 3rd one is coming up in 3 weeks

I prefer that old quote about relationships. "If your forced to choose between two people in a relationship, choose the second one. Because if you loved the first you would have never fallen for the second"

lol

Wha? That just seems like a blind trust to passion.

I think that's a bit short sighted. It's somewhat natural for people to be attracted to others regardless of a love for someone else.

I'd never advise anyone to make a decision on passion.

wouldnt that just pit previous infatuation against current infatuation?

seems useless

It's your responsibility as someone in a relationship to avoid situations where that happens.

That's also kinda the point voidsoul

find someone who yuo're passionate about, but also has the same long-term goals you want

People have replaced the word infatuation with love I'm modern society

Someone who's your co-op teammate in real life

the same happens with men too in relationships. They (at least the ones I dated / almost dated) believed sex was the deciding factor and without it, there was not point to be together. Because I don't care to have sex 'til marriage *and want to only be with one person* I haven't dated in years. It goes both ways with reasons for breaking up.

Nobody told me that limerence is outdated.

limerence is awesome

until you find out the woman smokes, and you kiss an ashtray durnig a party

thats when your dreams become ash too 😉

crucial note: *I'm from Las Vegas*

well you're in luck then Hero

I'm from Illinois matw

plenty of hookers and drinks to still pay for after those 50 dollar legal-marriages

I'd also like to point out, tinder looks like Tumblr here

ew

dude that sucks Yugure

i got an idea