Message from @Uksio
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if you do this too soon, it beocmes CO-dependance
@WeThePeopleAreFucked Only when I wake up and it takes me 5 minutes to figure what actually happened in the real world vs dreams
I hope it works out for you Sam.
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I'm weak willed and need a woman for comfort however lol
that's not what indepencance is
You can manage your dependencies in the best course though
that's what feminazis think it is
Good night!
independence is when you can CHOOSE to stay or go at will
I smoke too much weed to dream most days
> You can never go fully independent, you still owe people favours back, friendships and not the least of all taxes and civil duties
Despise the free lunch
you don't need one bad friend, you have others
Im a mess. Don't take life advice from me
you have a choice and you realize it's a negotiation of cost and benefit
Financially independent, with a skillset that does not limit you to being one-job-pony, independent in relationships etc.
interdependance is when you choose to allow another to occupy a symbiotic role with you
All those dependencies and independencies come with an asterisk when you inspect them closer
everything does
but you are taking it too hyperlitteral
independance means you have options
You can be dependant on yourself for what you'd normally be dependant on others and I don't think that's independence either
and you understand the trade-offs you are making
you don't have any one single point of failure
independence is lack of dependence. I.e. that is not your last option with no choices left
It is why you should always have plans B and C to fall back on
Life is as much independent as you think it through in advance
if you reach a point you are thinking that way, you've acheived that level of maturity
because those describe a maturity continuem
"I want to create music, I want to be a musician"
Ok fine, but what will you do for a job?
i disagree with that
because of the last stage
inter-dependance
if you are the husband/father, you can't think everything through in advance
Does not mean you should not try
you are also no longer about to decide unilaterally
Perfection can never be reached, but that does not mean you should not strive towards it
Just know where the diminishing returns kick in
not talking about perfection; its about maturity
It isn't something to try and get out of its a high trust state that you only choose to go into
in the last stage, i tbecomes more about duty
Not like regular dependence that you might be put into or start in and have to work out of