Message from @NinaRuss

Discord ID: 686035599861219362


2020-03-08 02:17:34 UTC  

yes, you are responsible for your actions but no man is an island

2020-03-08 02:17:49 UTC  

For example people who are given responsibility

2020-03-08 02:17:55 UTC  

Interaction is also a skill you keep improving

2020-03-08 02:18:06 UTC  

that isn't maturity though

2020-03-08 02:18:17 UTC  

best example is the continum

2020-03-08 02:18:19 UTC  

I tried being an island.
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I thought i was schizophrenic after about a year

2020-03-08 02:18:27 UTC  

What's your definition then?

2020-03-08 02:18:30 UTC  

dependance, independance, interdependance

2020-03-08 02:19:05 UTC  

I'm still trying to be an island

2020-03-08 02:19:08 UTC  

it's a spectrum. you start out dependance and then become independant on all facets, emotional, financial etc

2020-03-08 02:19:09 UTC  

Will tell you how it works out

2020-03-08 02:19:11 UTC  

Still question my sanity >.>

2020-03-08 02:19:27 UTC  

and until you can be totally independant, you aren't ready to be interdependant

2020-03-08 02:19:43 UTC  

You can never go fully independent, you still owe people favours back, friendships and not the least of all taxes and civil duties

2020-03-08 02:19:45 UTC  

if you do this too soon, it beocmes CO-dependance

2020-03-08 02:19:59 UTC  

@WeThePeopleAreFucked Only when I wake up and it takes me 5 minutes to figure what actually happened in the real world vs dreams

2020-03-08 02:20:02 UTC  

I hope it works out for you Sam.
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I'm weak willed and need a woman for comfort however lol

2020-03-08 02:20:02 UTC  

that's not what indepencance is

2020-03-08 02:20:05 UTC  

You can manage your dependencies in the best course though

2020-03-08 02:20:10 UTC  

that's what feminazis think it is

2020-03-08 02:20:32 UTC  

Good night!

2020-03-08 02:20:34 UTC  

independence is when you can CHOOSE to stay or go at will

2020-03-08 02:20:36 UTC  

I smoke too much weed to dream most days

2020-03-08 02:20:51 UTC  

> You can never go fully independent, you still owe people favours back, friendships and not the least of all taxes and civil duties
Despise the free lunch

2020-03-08 02:20:51 UTC  

you don't need one bad friend, you have others

2020-03-08 02:20:56 UTC  

Im a mess. Don't take life advice from me

2020-03-08 02:21:12 UTC  

you have a choice and you realize it's a negotiation of cost and benefit

2020-03-08 02:21:17 UTC  

Financially independent, with a skillset that does not limit you to being one-job-pony, independent in relationships etc.

2020-03-08 02:21:44 UTC  

interdependance is when you choose to allow another to occupy a symbiotic role with you

2020-03-08 02:21:49 UTC  

All those dependencies and independencies come with an asterisk when you inspect them closer

2020-03-08 02:22:03 UTC  

everything does

2020-03-08 02:22:17 UTC  

but you are taking it too hyperlitteral

2020-03-08 02:22:26 UTC  

independance means you have options

2020-03-08 02:22:31 UTC  

You can be dependant on yourself for what you'd normally be dependant on others and I don't think that's independence either

2020-03-08 02:22:33 UTC  

No I am looking at nuances

2020-03-08 02:22:43 UTC  

and you understand the trade-offs you are making

2020-03-08 02:23:00 UTC  

you don't have any one single point of failure

2020-03-08 02:23:09 UTC  

independence is lack of dependence. I.e. that is not your last option with no choices left

2020-03-08 02:23:23 UTC  

It is why you should always have plans B and C to fall back on

2020-03-08 02:23:47 UTC  

Life is as much independent as you think it through in advance

2020-03-08 02:23:50 UTC  

if you reach a point you are thinking that way, you've acheived that level of maturity