it's a spectrum. you start out dependance and then become independant on all facets, emotional, financial etc

Will tell you how it works out

Still question my sanity >.>

and until you can be totally independant, you aren't ready to be interdependant

You can never go fully independent, you still owe people favours back, friendships and not the least of all taxes and civil duties

if you do this too soon, it beocmes CO-dependance

@WeThePeopleAreFucked Only when I wake up and it takes me 5 minutes to figure what actually happened in the real world vs dreams

I hope it works out for you Sam.
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I'm weak willed and need a woman for comfort however lol

that's not what indepencance is

You can manage your dependencies in the best course though

that's what feminazis think it is

Good night!

independence is when you can CHOOSE to stay or go at will

I smoke too much weed to dream most days

> You can never go fully independent, you still owe people favours back, friendships and not the least of all taxes and civil duties
Despise the free lunch

you don't need one bad friend, you have others

Im a mess. Don't take life advice from me

you have a choice and you realize it's a negotiation of cost and benefit

Financially independent, with a skillset that does not limit you to being one-job-pony, independent in relationships etc.

interdependance is when you choose to allow another to occupy a symbiotic role with you

All those dependencies and independencies come with an asterisk when you inspect them closer

everything does

but you are taking it too hyperlitteral

independance means you have options

You can be dependant on yourself for what you'd normally be dependant on others and I don't think that's independence either

No I am looking at nuances

and you understand the trade-offs you are making

you don't have any one single point of failure

independence is lack of dependence. I.e. that is not your last option with no choices left

It is why you should always have plans B and C to fall back on

Life is as much independent as you think it through in advance

if you reach a point you are thinking that way, you've acheived that level of maturity

because those describe a maturity continuem

"I want to create music, I want to be a musician"
Ok fine, but what will you do for a job?

i disagree with that

because of the last stage

inter-dependance

if you are the husband/father, you can't think everything through in advance

Does not mean you should not try

you are also no longer about to decide unilaterally

Perfection can never be reached, but that does not mean you should not strive towards it