independance means you have options

You can be dependant on yourself for what you'd normally be dependant on others and I don't think that's independence either

No I am looking at nuances

and you understand the trade-offs you are making

you don't have any one single point of failure

independence is lack of dependence. I.e. that is not your last option with no choices left

It is why you should always have plans B and C to fall back on

Life is as much independent as you think it through in advance

if you reach a point you are thinking that way, you've acheived that level of maturity

because those describe a maturity continuem

"I want to create music, I want to be a musician"
Ok fine, but what will you do for a job?

i disagree with that

because of the last stage

inter-dependance

if you are the husband/father, you can't think everything through in advance

Does not mean you should not try

you are also no longer about to decide unilaterally

Perfection can never be reached, but that does not mean you should not strive towards it

Just know where the diminishing returns kick in

not talking about perfection; its about maturity

It isn't something to try and get out of its a high trust state that you only choose to go into

in the last stage, i tbecomes more about duty

Not like regular dependence that you might be put into or start in and have to work out of

This is actually a really productive and respectable conversation...
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Am... Am I on the internet?
Where am i?

where you respect the boundary without understanding the contents

You should respect boundaries all the time tho

@WeThePeopleAreFucked You're on the big brain part of Athens

Rare

That's what dads are for

To teach kids the boundaries

Normally its just autistic screeching

Big brain for real tho

interdepenance is different though

Why I hate my time zone

I miss most of these

This is actually insprational and informative

Ill just shut up,and let the big brains talk.

hello frens

because while it still requires you to be responsible for everything under your umbrella, many aspects happen without your knowledege

hello, darling

evening'