calling them "the red station" is a running joke here now

If they're rational, be there and give the information,

If they're irrational, no amount of facts will change their feelings, so you have to connect to their emotional state

I'm reminded of the movie: Jupiter Ascending

giving facts only pushes them away at taht point

I hate using emotions to get a point across

it sucks, but it works for 50% of the people 😛

thats why i keep saying you need to ask questions that will make them question themselves

it feels ridiculous when you do it and you almost feel dirty afterward

cuz those don't care for fats, only truth

that way it doesnt come across as pushy

Well I want to give them the tools to make a informed decision. Basically help them answer their questions before they make the decision. Because I think being informed allows them to make the right decision.

like you tricked them into believing what you had to say

ya, who cares about them fats anyway?

and it allows them to come to there own conclusion

they're not even human.

Most of the transpeople I know research the heck out of it but still viserally try to assume it will all turn out perfect

Whatever answer they want, I will try my best to help answer it.

@DrYuriMom that's called confirmation bias lol

I know

You might see it that way @Dusty Morgan

But they might see it as "You're crazy, read this and go get some sane-pills from a docter, you loon"

And feel insulted, like you're not there to help them

confirmation bias will get you hurt big time

I always make an effort to research the counter argument to my argument

I know

Not me, I make an effort to not have an argument to begin with 😃

😄

But even being left pretty wrecked nerve wise, I'm still glad I did it.

I actually had a woman argue with me because I said "Happy International Men's Day gents"

well sure, you called her a fag.

why wouldn't she mad at that?

That's sad, @willc

Because "women had to fight for their right to vote" and I'm like "what does that have to do with appreciating the efforts of men?"

Word

Isn't that not the truth, didn't they not have to fight for their vote?

men had to fight for their right to vote too, they just did it MUCH sooner 😄

Well I am there to help them...

Give them any answer they need.

And I stand behind their decision.

What was the name of the Brain Biologyst Chick that was by Rogen? Soh??

Women fought in the revolutionary war and civil war.

Watch that.

She said that most "Trans" Kids turn out to be just normal gays.