like i said i only started following this thing later on so idk what was said before

innocent until proven guilty. Weather its man or woman

At what point do we blame abusers, over the victim

Here is a simple formula I follow:

When it gets to the point that an NPC plays the "You just hate women." card, you simply declare yourself the winner and walk away.

You have pushed the NPC as far you can. It's a waste of time beyond that.

Undead told me straiight up, Its my moms fault for being abused by my dad for marrying him

Now, at what point is it not my moms fault?

I dont blame victims, but me just questioning a "victim" is now considered blaming the victim

sure she had some part of the blame, she shouldnt of stuck with him

That much is clear

but do we just say its her own fault, or do we punish my dad for what he did?

Like seriously, undeads argument says, that my dad should get off scott free

Right well

My stepdad was a psychopath

So, seriously at what point do we stop blaming the victims of ACTUAL abuse

im not gonna go into detail what he did

But i did blame my mother for not throwing him out after i told her about what he was doing for 5 years straight

But I can understand that

That is still different, should he get off scott free?

the answer is no

No but he did

because she never pressed charges

Sadly in the reverse it happens far more often

even tho there was AMPLE evidence

Undead is jealous that he cant get away with abusing his partner

but she can abuse him all she wants

Actually, let me shill a video.

Just for the lulz

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WUA8yziWA2Q

well technically she can codes

Yeah, and I aint saying she cant

the treshhold for women is so much higher then men

Ill give an example

I am just saying get over it

Stop blaming your problems on it.

Man gets convicted for life for abducting, raping and murdering a bunch of young girls

His wife who fed these kids and took part in everything from planning to execution

Maybe we should just wrap women in bubble wrap.

was released from prison a few years ago

lel

after serving iirc 12 years of her max sentence or something