Message from @Grenade123

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2018-12-03 21:44:27 UTC  

Jesus christ

2018-12-03 21:44:34 UTC  

"Now I was needed. I was never alone.... Maybe the old me was not really dead, just changed, and the reward of my choice to stay home would not be better-off kids but a better-off self. I would return from my sabbatical with a broader perspective and a bigger heart, knowing something of the world that I hadn’t before."

2018-12-03 21:44:35 UTC  

Damn, son...

2018-12-03 21:45:04 UTC  

sounds like the realization of a hard lesson you didn't know you need but are glad you are learning

2018-12-03 21:46:02 UTC  

Kind of like when I started writing my book. I hated it at first, but then realized that I was good at it.

2018-12-03 21:46:20 UTC  

you are writing a book?

2018-12-03 21:46:48 UTC  

Sounds like she's been feed propaganda about how it's great to be a single woman in the work force until you die, then she realized she's alone, and having kids was something she never thought about until she had them, now she's reeling.

2018-12-03 21:47:13 UTC  

she is not a single mother

2018-12-03 21:47:23 UTC  

I didn't say she was

2018-12-03 21:47:41 UTC  

She was single until she was 27, then she realized that she was alone

2018-12-03 21:47:47 UTC  

Then got married, and had kids

2018-12-03 21:47:58 UTC  

what are you talking about today, kids

2018-12-03 21:48:06 UTC  

articles posted above

2018-12-03 21:48:50 UTC  

Tumblr shutdown porn and lifestyles of a stay at home mother

2018-12-03 21:49:11 UTC  

oof I did misread it. thank you for correcting me @Grenade123

2018-12-03 21:49:26 UTC  

@DrWittMDPhD idk if she got married at 27 and had kids, or if she was just alone while at work, unable to call a husband also at work.

2018-12-03 21:49:38 UTC  

@AHeroQuest i misread it the first 2 or 3 times too, lmao

2018-12-03 21:50:07 UTC  

i blame the typical bs we look at day to day. Had to work out all the preconceived notions

2018-12-03 21:50:21 UTC  

This sounds like she was single
"But I had been single, and the weekends stretched out before me like marathons. One Saturday afternoon, when I was 27 and feeling bored after a boozy brunch with friends and a walk around the reservoir with my headphones in, I called my older brother one too many times to talk. He said, 'You’re always alone, aren’t you?'"

2018-12-03 21:50:39 UTC  

ah you are right.

2018-12-03 21:51:05 UTC  

would have been helpful if she detailed what age she had kids

2018-12-03 21:51:14 UTC  

Yeah

2018-12-03 21:51:24 UTC  

Might've even taken her till 30 tbh

2018-12-03 21:51:37 UTC  

At youngest she was 27 though

2018-12-03 21:51:57 UTC  

most likely she had kids late

2018-12-03 21:52:34 UTC  

she kept stressing her husband's words/actions towards her along with her mother's worry for her

2018-12-03 21:52:40 UTC  

betting she wish she had kids earlier when she had more energy

2018-12-03 21:53:01 UTC  

she moved in with her parents while the husband stayed at the original home

2018-12-03 21:53:03 UTC  

Yeah handling babies is hard work. Doing that at 30 is no fun

2018-12-03 21:53:38 UTC  

But its normal now

2018-12-03 21:53:51 UTC  

Idk if any of you have seen this trailer but

2018-12-03 21:53:55 UTC  

It's really fucking bad

2018-12-03 21:54:05 UTC  

. . . I don't think so. She mentioned more than a couple of times how she wishes to be at work rather than taking care of her children all the time (even though it's not really like that)

2018-12-03 21:54:29 UTC  

This is supposed to be medieval England

2018-12-03 21:54:43 UTC  

Yikes @AHeroQuest sounds like she wasn't really into being a mother in the first place?

2018-12-03 21:56:06 UTC  

Yea our society has definately has pushed career more on women than family

2018-12-03 21:56:35 UTC  

women push carrier on other women, not society)

2018-12-03 21:56:44 UTC  

@Swedishmafia101 but was it tho; I had gotten the impression it was like a sci fi reimagining of the story

2018-12-03 21:56:53 UTC  

From the trailer at least

2018-12-03 21:56:54 UTC  

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