damn, they all fit in your oven?

Because most people don't

deep frying 2 and baking 1

seems as if a lot of employers ask that old chestnut

I mean actually list it on a piece of paper

>deep fry

I mean ngl singing to a big group is stressful, sometimes incredibly so. But for totally different reasons. I don't feel people stare at me judging me and shit, like the audience, I get worried that the singers around me are gonna think thst I'm not actually a good singer, that I'm a fraud @Leeroy

so texan

"what's your malfunction"

deep fried turkey is actually a cajun thing but I stole it

@Red Pulsating Rod I do that relatively frequently, it's not a good way to enjoy life

@coattailsandbowties that's got a name, it's called imposter syndrome

my mum has it

@Red Pulsating Rod welcome to depression, I *never stop doing that*

@zalfir Once you've listed your issues, work out how you can fix them

@Aya aye, I get it with singing and with uni

knowing which order and which ones come from what, is part of the problem

Instead of wallowing in the fact you have such flaws, improve upon them

And which ones are your brain just being a dick and finding things wrong in the smallest of things.

Your not gonna feel good about yourself listing what's wrong with you everyday

for example, acting my urge to play the bass guitar turned out to be a major solution to certain types of depressive self-pity, but those episodes stopped me playing bass guitar, ykno?

I had depression for years. When I started doing things each day like tending my garden and getting chickens to feed and lock up/let out each morning, having to do those things made me have a regular schedule and made me achieve small things I was proud of.

^

which made it go away

It's the small things

Start with making your bed

it really is the small things

and a regular sleeping pattern

@Red Pulsating Rod ok I know you mean well but you obviously don't understand depression. There's a reason people remain in it for years and years without therapeutic help, and saying "just dont wallow" is something you hear a thousand times. It *doesn't help*.

has to be an individual solution

idk

well that's it, isn't it. It doesn't help anyone to hear any advice, you have to actually do it.

a lot of that kind of thing causes me anxiety, and in the case of regular sleeping pattern, being awake during the morning causes me to be an angry person, overall - motivated, but a cunt to be around

That's true but I do think wallowing in it doesn't help

I hate the idea of medicating people for this shit

Actively doing something about it does

tbh I'd rather prescribe them medical marijuana, at least then they can get stuck into RDR2 and enjoy it loool

The therapeutic help to me doesn't sound helpful tbh

For some people they can just get up and do things. Other people can't. This may surprise you, but *depression isn't a monolith*

I got medicated with a load of stuff, when it all failed and I'd tried all the various cbt, counselling, eveything they had, they gave up. It was then up to me to make the choice to either off myself or change some stuff I thought was impossible

I'm not saying to just get up and fix yourself right away