how's it hanging today

pretty good, startin the turkeys today

in real life there's no room for mistakes like that

Also another thing Jordan talks about is flaws in yourself

oh yeah thanksgiving is around now right?

tomorrow

Has anyone here actually looked at there selves and listed the amount of flaws they have?

who's on your invite list?

too many lol, i got 3 turkeys

You have to if you want to be better

Consider that then work how you can fix yourself

damn, they all fit in your oven?

Because most people don't

deep frying 2 and baking 1

seems as if a lot of employers ask that old chestnut

I mean actually list it on a piece of paper

>deep fry

I mean ngl singing to a big group is stressful, sometimes incredibly so. But for totally different reasons. I don't feel people stare at me judging me and shit, like the audience, I get worried that the singers around me are gonna think thst I'm not actually a good singer, that I'm a fraud @Leeroy

so texan

"what's your malfunction"

deep fried turkey is actually a cajun thing but I stole it

@Red Pulsating Rod I do that relatively frequently, it's not a good way to enjoy life

@coattailsandbowties that's got a name, it's called imposter syndrome

my mum has it

@Red Pulsating Rod welcome to depression, I *never stop doing that*

@zalfir Once you've listed your issues, work out how you can fix them

@Aya aye, I get it with singing and with uni

knowing which order and which ones come from what, is part of the problem

Instead of wallowing in the fact you have such flaws, improve upon them

And which ones are your brain just being a dick and finding things wrong in the smallest of things.

Your not gonna feel good about yourself listing what's wrong with you everyday

for example, acting my urge to play the bass guitar turned out to be a major solution to certain types of depressive self-pity, but those episodes stopped me playing bass guitar, ykno?

I had depression for years. When I started doing things each day like tending my garden and getting chickens to feed and lock up/let out each morning, having to do those things made me have a regular schedule and made me achieve small things I was proud of.

^

which made it go away

It's the small things

Start with making your bed

it really is the small things

and a regular sleeping pattern

@Red Pulsating Rod ok I know you mean well but you obviously don't understand depression. There's a reason people remain in it for years and years without therapeutic help, and saying "just dont wallow" is something you hear a thousand times. It *doesn't help*.

has to be an individual solution