ew

Which is ironic cause I don’t want kids

used to think i'd be a shit parent n all, then me bro said "atleast you are aware you might be, thousands of shit parents dont even think if they are or not" and i was like, fair point

I guess

my parents want me to have kids. my mother keeps bringing it up

I had mine pretty late, and everything turned out ok

Other than the marriage

worrying about being a shit parent stops you from becoming one most of the time

my mother just doesn't give a fuck if i do or don't

@Ruger yeah, i was doing pretty badly until my friends pointed out that i'm holding myself to unrealistic standards

as long as you still worry when you're mad

moral of the story: if you think you might be a shit parent, you probably will be the opposite

Don't be afraid to parent, apathy makes for the worst children

i mean, its a fine line, you want just enough childhood trauma so the kid turns out funny

lmao

I feel like my mom would be really sad if she never had grandchildren, but I really don’t want kids. I really just hope my brother decides to have them

also taking care of number 1 in order to take care of number 2 is a better strategy than falling apart trying to keep up with everything number 2 needs

jim i dont they were impressed with their first batch of spawn so they want you to have kids so they can a redo lol

My parents already have 5 grandkids. They don't care if I give them any. And my wife doesn't want any, I don't want any

I didn't want to pass on my asd, but bf is slowly convincing me to

they already have grandkids

5 of them

If you let yer youngin walk all over you and you don't call em out on shit they become little pissants who don't listen to nothing or no one

holyshit

but my mother still keeps dropping mad hints

Obviously don't beat your kids, but you're not their friend you're their parent

i mean my aunt just had a kid and shes like 37 so you got time

why wouldn't they, they get all the cute bits and none of the shit to clean

haha, yeah my grandmother wants to be a great grandmother and i keep telling her that ain't gonna happen soon

fucking incel

don't be fat

aspies get laid

just don't be fat

just dont fat, aye

then don't complain about not getting laid, it's a choice

no you dont, dont lie to yourself

I don't like being fat

Wtf r u on about

do what i did, get weights and workout at home, get job in private security and have pussy for days

@Deleted User I wouldn’t put yourself down so easily. I’m fat and pretty ugly, but I have had gf’s before because of my rl personality

does being a parent count if you rape someone and they become/ make you pregnant?