Message from @Jim
Discord ID: 532063993121210388
I’d be the worst fuckin parent
me and my ex wanted to have kids but damn we were way to young to be trying for that like
how old are you ruger?
35
still trying to find women who understand anything beyond 2+2, i hang in the wrong circles.
i kind of wish i'd waited until now, but accidents will happen
@Hob lol
yeah that's pretty dad age
you still have time ruger
Fucking boomer
Rugers gotta get himself a kid before his dad bod fills in
yeah man, my dad with his wife just squirted out a couple last year and he's 52
like there are bois having kids in their l8 40s
I’m 18 and I already have a dad bod
hey man, some girls like that shit
ew
Which is ironic cause I don’t want kids
used to think i'd be a shit parent n all, then me bro said "atleast you are aware you might be, thousands of shit parents dont even think if they are or not" and i was like, fair point
I guess
I had mine pretty late, and everything turned out ok
Other than the marriage
worrying about being a shit parent stops you from becoming one most of the time
my mother just doesn't give a fuck if i do or don't
@Ruger yeah, i was doing pretty badly until my friends pointed out that i'm holding myself to unrealistic standards
as long as you still worry when you're mad
moral of the story: if you think you might be a shit parent, you probably will be the opposite
Don't be afraid to parent, apathy makes for the worst children
i mean, its a fine line, you want just enough childhood trauma so the kid turns out funny
lmao
I feel like my mom would be really sad if she never had grandchildren, but I really don’t want kids. I really just hope my brother decides to have them
also taking care of number 1 in order to take care of number 2 is a better strategy than falling apart trying to keep up with everything number 2 needs
jim i dont they were impressed with their first batch of spawn so they want you to have kids so they can a redo lol
My parents already have 5 grandkids. They don't care if I give them any. And my wife doesn't want any, I don't want any
I didn't want to pass on my asd, but bf is slowly convincing me to
they already have grandkids
5 of them
If you let yer youngin walk all over you and you don't call em out on shit they become little pissants who don't listen to nothing or no one
holyshit
but my mother still keeps dropping mad hints