Message from @Jim

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2019-01-08 05:10:47 UTC  

I’d be the worst fuckin parent

2019-01-08 05:10:50 UTC  

me and my ex wanted to have kids but damn we were way to young to be trying for that like

2019-01-08 05:10:56 UTC  

how old are you ruger?

2019-01-08 05:10:58 UTC  

35

2019-01-08 05:10:58 UTC  

still trying to find women who understand anything beyond 2+2, i hang in the wrong circles.

2019-01-08 05:11:00 UTC  

i kind of wish i'd waited until now, but accidents will happen

2019-01-08 05:11:05 UTC  

@Hob lol

2019-01-08 05:11:07 UTC  

@Ruger make me a god parent

2019-01-08 05:11:09 UTC  

yeah that's pretty dad age

2019-01-08 05:11:13 UTC  

you still have time ruger

2019-01-08 05:11:25 UTC  

Fucking boomer

2019-01-08 05:11:33 UTC  

Rugers gotta get himself a kid before his dad bod fills in

2019-01-08 05:11:37 UTC  

yeah man, my dad with his wife just squirted out a couple last year and he's 52

2019-01-08 05:11:43 UTC  

like there are bois having kids in their l8 40s

2019-01-08 05:11:48 UTC  

I’m 18 and I already have a dad bod

2019-01-08 05:11:59 UTC  

hey man, some girls like that shit

2019-01-08 05:12:01 UTC  

ew

2019-01-08 05:12:05 UTC  

Which is ironic cause I don’t want kids

2019-01-08 05:12:06 UTC  

used to think i'd be a shit parent n all, then me bro said "atleast you are aware you might be, thousands of shit parents dont even think if they are or not" and i was like, fair point

2019-01-08 05:12:19 UTC  

I guess

2019-01-08 05:12:21 UTC  

my parents want me to have kids. my mother keeps bringing it up

2019-01-08 05:12:25 UTC  

I had mine pretty late, and everything turned out ok

2019-01-08 05:12:29 UTC  

Other than the marriage

2019-01-08 05:12:33 UTC  

worrying about being a shit parent stops you from becoming one most of the time

2019-01-08 05:12:42 UTC  

my mother just doesn't give a fuck if i do or don't

2019-01-08 05:12:45 UTC  

@Ruger yeah, i was doing pretty badly until my friends pointed out that i'm holding myself to unrealistic standards

2019-01-08 05:12:45 UTC  

as long as you still worry when you're mad

2019-01-08 05:13:04 UTC  

moral of the story: if you think you might be a shit parent, you probably will be the opposite

2019-01-08 05:13:05 UTC  

Don't be afraid to parent, apathy makes for the worst children

2019-01-08 05:13:07 UTC  

i mean, its a fine line, you want just enough childhood trauma so the kid turns out funny

2019-01-08 05:13:14 UTC  

lmao

2019-01-08 05:13:17 UTC  

I feel like my mom would be really sad if she never had grandchildren, but I really don’t want kids. I really just hope my brother decides to have them

2019-01-08 05:13:27 UTC  

also taking care of number 1 in order to take care of number 2 is a better strategy than falling apart trying to keep up with everything number 2 needs

2019-01-08 05:13:32 UTC  

jim i dont they were impressed with their first batch of spawn so they want you to have kids so they can a redo lol

2019-01-08 05:13:34 UTC  

My parents already have 5 grandkids. They don't care if I give them any. And my wife doesn't want any, I don't want any

2019-01-08 05:13:45 UTC  

I didn't want to pass on my asd, but bf is slowly convincing me to

2019-01-08 05:13:48 UTC  

they already have grandkids

2019-01-08 05:13:49 UTC  

5 of them

2019-01-08 05:13:52 UTC  

If you let yer youngin walk all over you and you don't call em out on shit they become little pissants who don't listen to nothing or no one

2019-01-08 05:13:53 UTC  

holyshit

2019-01-08 05:13:55 UTC  

but my mother still keeps dropping mad hints