Message from @Jim
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Only time I get a bit nervous was meeting my fiancé’s family members
its been vastly incorrect for me in the past
mine's been very reliable, a lot of my mistakes have been when going against it
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I avoid anyone who starts telling me mad personal shit after knowing them for like 5 minutes
basically the opposite for me
cause you said you met twitter people
i've met a few people from online, aye
Same
twitter folks, folks from game communities
I’ve met like one person I spoke with on PlayStation
I dont meet people online cause they all live far away
ive met loads of internet peeps
Got a friend in Scotland I wanna meet though
it takes me a minute to change gears though, can be quiet at first
Nah I get that
I don't meet people on the internet because I have major trust issues
there are very few people id be willing to meet
That’s fair enough
like to get over anxiety and any other worries about trust or whatever. but no bad experiences so far
i would never wanna go to a big meetup tho
Why
Anxiety?
I think that’d be fun
i psyched myself out of scarborough
wish i hadn't but there you go
no anxiety just doesnt seem fun
aye you'll eventually find out its basically all in yer head, you need to gather up enough examples to convince yer sub-concious
Always another time Jim. I've psyched myself out of shit before.
Get some drinks involved and it could be more fun 😂
I'd be a wallflower at a meet up tbh
anxiety is like knowing a predator will be released into the room without knowing when or what kind
I used to be very nervous meeting new people, but as I said I had to learn to get used to it with my work
im fine with big groups but something about it all being internet people just seems like it would be fun but also to frustrating make it worth it
Most people are different face to face.
like the max number of people id be down to meet at once would be like 3 or so
took me about a decade to break social anxiety disorder like, was tough work
A meet up would be fun
doing this work holiday has helped a lot with it. Got over my fear of heights too
I'm less cutesy irl