Cow says my heart is too big.

I mean when I was younger I had a cat at my grans and went there one day and the cat was dead and my reaction was oh

It's a skill, just gotta develop a thick skin

I was fucking sobbing when we had to put our cat down.

Like carrying home the empty cat carrier was just...the worst experience

Not that I didn't love the cat though tigger was great

Aw. :( sorry to hear that.

We were in the vets and she couldn't even lift her head off the table, me n my mum just looked at each other and burst into tears because we knew we had to

Sorry you had to go through that

Wait Manchester? I thought you were from Surrey

I'm from Surrey, in manc for uni.

Aaah

Should write this shit out

Every kid has a pet who dies, would help if some empath had written a book on how they dealt with it 🤔

No one experiences grief and loss in the same way.

you just get over it

Time tbh.

Yeah coping mechanisms are good to have though.

Yeah so, put that in

You'll be sad for a while. Then in time the times when you're sad get further apart, until the memory of them doesn't cause sadness from their loss, but happiness for their time with you.

Deep

Death sucks but its inevitable and greiving is a necessary proccess to get through it

Death hits everyone. Family, friends. You're gonna have to deal with it at some point.

I lost both of my parents and it always helps to think of the good times. @coattailsandbowties

Be happy it happened

Not sad that its over

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Still can't get over my great grandma and it's been 5 years.

My wife always said that to me when she was in hospital

You never get over grandparents mate @Sechesin

Never

What do you fancy doing coats?

With what?

You never really get over anyone it seems.

Never regretted anything more than not talking to her when I had the chance. But had to be a fucking mute...

I dunno like anything

Pick a thing

I have no idea what I'm gonna do when my grandparents die. I haven't spoken to my dad in years and never want to again, but at the same time I'd want to go to his parents' funerals.

Right so fuck that

It is okay man. Don't regret things like that. In retrospect it may have been too hard for you to say anything during that time. @Sechesin

Its shitty but the past is set in stone, just be greatfull that you spent time with her, it probobly meant the world to her when you did @Sechesin