Message from @Todd
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Like carrying home the empty cat carrier was just...the worst experience
Not that I didn't love the cat though tigger was great
Aw. :( sorry to hear that.
We were in the vets and she couldn't even lift her head off the table, me n my mum just looked at each other and burst into tears because we knew we had to
Sorry you had to go through that
Wait Manchester? I thought you were from Surrey
I'm from Surrey, in manc for uni.
Aaah
Should write this shit out
Every kid has a pet who dies, would help if some empath had written a book on how they dealt with it 🤔
No one experiences grief and loss in the same way.
you just get over it
Time tbh.
Yeah coping mechanisms are good to have though.
Yeah so, put that in
You'll be sad for a while. Then in time the times when you're sad get further apart, until the memory of them doesn't cause sadness from their loss, but happiness for their time with you.
Deep
Death sucks but its inevitable and greiving is a necessary proccess to get through it
Death hits everyone. Family, friends. You're gonna have to deal with it at some point.
I lost both of my parents and it always helps to think of the good times. @coattailsandbowties
Not sad that its over
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Still can't get over my great grandma and it's been 5 years.
My wife always said that to me when she was in hospital
Never
What do you fancy doing coats?
With what?
You never really get over anyone it seems.
Never regretted anything more than not talking to her when I had the chance. But had to be a fucking mute...
I dunno like anything
Pick a thing
I have no idea what I'm gonna do when my grandparents die. I haven't spoken to my dad in years and never want to again, but at the same time I'd want to go to his parents' funerals.
Right so fuck that
It is okay man. Don't regret things like that. In retrospect it may have been too hard for you to say anything during that time. @Sechesin
Its shitty but the past is set in stone, just be greatfull that you spent time with her, it probobly meant the world to her when you did @Sechesin
You go visit them around him, is that an option?
I mean my gparents are great, they still come see us a lot. Just my dad isn't welcome.
The issue is at their inevitable funerals
I'd probably go on the proviso that he doesn't come near me and with someone who can help me handle.