Is it possible you might be the daddy?

100% not

I’m still a Virgin and for reasons just like this

Wait so the other friends are threatening to kill themselves if you don't help them financially?

It’s not financial

It’s emotional support

Oh

They are crazy and I’ve been used by girls throughout middle school and high school

I’m known for being way to caring and not holding down the rules and crap

I let people step on me cause I can’t stand making people sad or disappointed or leaving them in that state.

I see

I took my friends advice and told one of them I needed space.

Last time I said this her friend flipped on me said “she is literally crying right now you monster, jeez she just wanted to be your friends and you won’t even be nice to her”

*sigh*

Not your problem man. You can't control what other people do / how they react to things

I just feel like a terrible human

I've been there man

You're probably being a much better person than they would enjoy to you

If you were emotionally needy

Dude, the last time I talked to this chick before this she just kept leaving me on read when I tried to make conversation

She literally came to me two months ago called me I answered she cried I got emotionally invested.

Then she told me how life sucked, then Started hitting on me (she has a boyfriend) and told me her ex (I person I actually knew I didn’t know her well) was a terrible person and should die.

I don’t know much about this chick and the one time I asked for her help she said she needed to take care of herself. (This was like 2 years ago) I said okay, then later she never texted me back again and now I somehow owe her something

Aghhhhh, I’m just venting at this point but it’s always seeming to be females that minipulate me and I’m not even interested romantically or sexually I don’t usually care if we are friend so I don’t know why I feel like I have to help them.

Even my current friend (who actually doesn’t suck, the possibly pregnant one) says that they are all terrible for it, but I just hate it.

outside observer, that all sounds like a huge boatload of manipulation, you are not imagining it, you are being actively and continuosly manipulated

I agree you're being manipulated

Yeah, and I can relate. I’ve been in similar situations with manipulative individuals before

Me too. I was manipulated and bamboozled.

Also never care what a friend or family member of hers has to say. If they start bothering you about how you're treating the person I suggest politely telling them to not contact you again

never let anyone give you shit for taking care of yourself

thats just messed up

you always have to leave room for yourself, because you come first

you put the air mask on yourself before putting it on your child

because you can only be capable of taking of others if you are capable of taking care of yourself

so always make sure you are cared for before helping others

Yeah good advice @Max

@Thedemogamer💙 Wow. If they are saying they'll kill themselves if you don't support them, that's outright emotional blackmail. You should cut people like that out of your life.

So I guess I’ll post the update, it’s been a numb but better then bad day, I have a crappy cold still, but one of them texted me back (the screenshot one) and told me she was okay with it and just didn’t know what to say, she wished me luck in the future, and the other one hasn’t been texting me (probably a good thing) the possible Pregnant one is studying and I’m kinda alone, but that’s okay.

Finally chilling with some Netflix, and trying to just relax.