Message from @Indigo

Discord ID: 530292863645515776


2019-01-03 07:45:33 UTC  

"the system of gender-based hierarchy in society which assigns most power to men, and assigns higher value to men, maleness, and "masculine traits"

2019-01-03 07:45:52 UTC  

verbatim

2019-01-03 07:45:55 UTC  

**which assigns most power to men**

2019-01-03 07:46:37 UTC  

You all seem to agree that doesn't imply oppression, even in context

2019-01-03 07:47:34 UTC  

Specifically the context of assigning higher value to men

2019-01-03 07:47:44 UTC  

(which I disagree with)

2019-01-03 07:48:12 UTC  

...

2019-01-03 07:48:27 UTC  

How can you disagree with your own definition of it

2019-01-03 07:48:34 UTC  

It is not my definition

2019-01-03 07:48:38 UTC  

I never claimed it was

2019-01-03 07:51:21 UTC  

Now if you would kindly all shut up for a minute or two

2019-01-03 07:51:30 UTC  

I would like to write up what I think

2019-01-03 07:51:46 UTC  

"Well now we get to stop guessing at what Sick was trying to say and hear him say it ๐Ÿ˜‰"

2019-01-03 07:51:54 UTC  
2019-01-03 07:52:06 UTC  

@Indigo Actually the reason we dint work with feminists is because MRA's tried to, many times, and didn't get anywhere

2019-01-03 07:52:23 UTC  

Also say what you wish but you have no authority to silence others

2019-01-03 07:52:35 UTC  

I know, as Warren Farrel and Erin pizzey did

2019-01-03 07:52:54 UTC  

Farrell was successful for quite some time

2019-01-03 07:53:10 UTC  

And Pizzey was always hostile to feminists

2019-01-03 07:53:24 UTC  

Well, hopefully, Sick is just saying to stop @ing him for a bit so he can do a writeup in notepad or something and then paste it

2019-01-03 07:54:31 UTC  

Pizzey being hostile since feminists denied that men can be victims of domestic violence.

2019-01-03 07:56:58 UTC  

I think it'd be a tad weird for Pizzey to have been hostile to feminists from the very beginning, since feminists ended up in control of a shelter than Pizzey herself had bought, and I don't think that'd've been possible if Pizzey was always hostile to feminists.

2019-01-03 07:58:06 UTC  

I would suspect she just figured people wouldn't contradict her for the presently clear realities of domestic violence that she witnessed -- and she became hostile when they tried to shut her up for it.

2019-01-03 07:58:50 UTC  

But I don't have anything that Pizzey said that would really demonstrate that

2019-01-03 08:00:26 UTC  

That said, I also don't have anything that would suggest that Pizzey actively tried to work with feminists either

2019-01-03 08:01:15 UTC  

What I did read was that feminists made an enemy out of her, not the other way around

2019-01-03 08:01:53 UTC  

sure, but that happened after she fled the country to the US

2019-01-03 08:03:58 UTC  

Just off the top of my head (don't quote me), I recall when she first opened the domestic violence shelter for women it was because she thought it was solely a woman's problem, only to find that a lot of the women abused their place at the shelter and were just as violent. While that's not solely a feminist view, I do think she was involved with feminism. They then turned against her when she pointed this out. That could be viewed as working with feminists till they made it impossible. Of course she never identified as an MRA though

2019-01-03 08:05:46 UTC  

At least not until joining AvFM. But anyways, please let it rip Sick, since you seem to have it ready

2019-01-03 08:05:58 UTC  

Oh, nvm, you did in the serious channel

2019-01-03 10:52:41 UTC  

Boy, you guys really had quite the debate there.

2019-01-03 13:46:11 UTC  

IMO it's difficult to justify the harassment and opposition feminists show towards the mere recognition of male victims of domestic violence, ESPECIALLY if they claim to "oppose gender stereotypes". if that were true, they'd be open to the idea that men can be victims

2019-01-03 17:44:40 UTC  

Yep. But that's how people who are wrong and know it act. People who actually believe they are right don't need to shout.

2019-01-03 17:51:34 UTC  

Unless itโ€™s noisy...

2019-01-03 18:08:50 UTC  

Well, what I meant was they don't need to call you a bunch of names. Lol

2019-01-03 18:08:56 UTC  

And screach

2019-01-03 18:47:29 UTC  

Loki was just being witty

2019-01-03 22:23:02 UTC  

what do you make of this lads?

2019-01-03 22:25:03 UTC  

I think I saw some article or something along those lines, but I can't remember it all. I'll have to watch it later when I have time

2019-01-03 22:42:28 UTC  

Well going by the sensational title it looks kind of bs, since a lot of things contributed to the fall of Rome and something like feminism was probably the least of their worries