Message from @Maxthx
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It is usually credited (possibly wrongly) for feminism embracing hypoagency, whereas before the girl-power routine was more genuine.
yeah, I definitely got a different flavor of 3rd Wave
A fraction of 3rd wave is more rooted in some of the early 2nd wave notions of equality, but without the hypocracy
but it is the fraction that isn't in power, and even then equality-of-outcome can still be prominent.
my primary exposures to 3rd wave was Riot Grrl and Roller Derby
Riot Grrl sounds pretty bad: "Because in every form of media we see ourselves slapped, decapitated, laughed at, objectified, raped, trivialized, pushed, ignored, stereotyped, kicked, scorned, molested, silenced, invalidated, knifed, shot, choked and killed. Because a safe space needs to be created for girls where we can open our eyes and reach out to each other without being threatened by this sexist society and our day to day bullshit."
Hello hegemonic rape culture lol
Also can you say DV myths?
I suppose yes... but I never felt animousity
it wasn't about demonizing men... it evolved into that yes
but it didn't start there
Well feminism is pretty good about low-keying the animosity, even while playing up the oppression narrative like that Riot Grrl quote. You can notice the same thing about some white nationalists actually. It isn't that there is aggressive domination style hate, but rather that "people should be loyal to their own race, race-traitors are bad"
I can see the line of evolution but I still feel like 3rd Wave... or at least the portion I was around... were not about demonizing and attacking masculinity
they were about empowerment...
I know its a small distinction, but I feel its important
When something demonizes in order to empower, is there a difference?
I don't really have any sort of rock to stand on in this but that I didn't FEEL threatened during 3rd Wave... but I feel it now
to be clear, I was actively involved in the Riot Grrl movement, I attended Bikini Kill's shows
I never felt hatred, I didn't feel unwelcome
I feel that now
I can't explain the distinction, but I don't feel safe in my town with 4th Wave, but I felt totally fine in 3rd Wave
That's fair. MeToo wasn't a thing then, people didn't realize that affirmative consent meant jailing men having drunk consensual sex, whereas that is much more trumped up now.
Men are trash was less mainstream
I can see a lot of how 3rd Wave is now the roots of 4th Wave
but I liked 3rd Wave... so its hard for me to dislike it for empowering and creating 4th Wave
its like seeing something you loved used for evil purposes
Let me put it another way, 3rd wave was mostly panned for being rediculous. Mansplaining and patriarchy
right, they were panned by 2nd Wave Feminists, the Feminist Establishment
Ohohoho, the feminist establishment isn't 2nd wave really.
But we pan 3rd wave for hate. All it has to be is to talk about "patriarchy" as if that's some gender neutral thing. But like a totally non-racist "jewry" (and yes, some anti-semites insist on this) it's just a veneer.
and that patriarchy and privilege requiring power as an ingredient, that's blood libel
and its false to begin with, whole-cloth historical revisionism
2nd wave had its stinkers too, Valenti and all, but the feminist establishment rejected that during 2nd wave. The objectional part there was more about gendering shit like DV through Koss' malicious research and applying gender neutrality only where it benefited women
this is all just making me think that I'm judging 4th Wave too harshly... like are there good things coming out of 4th Wave that I don't know about?
if 3rd Wave could be responsible for Roller Derby and Riot Grrl... does 4th Wave have something positive about it?
I'm telling you Riot Grrl was all aboard the hate movement, and all in on DV myths
well it was a subset of Punk
I do like punk
4th wave, if it does something good it'll probably be breaking down gender roles a tad more. They've also toned down the DV myths a lot since 3rd wave. But 4th wave is some scary shit.
They'll probably go further on paternity leave
its having a massive impact on Hollywood, which might be a good thing in the long run