Message from @Indigo

Discord ID: 524428433640521729


2018-12-17 21:25:12 UTC  

Bout time we had a Discord for this!

2018-12-17 22:09:18 UTC  

hey, welcome to all of the lovely new people 😄

2018-12-17 23:18:19 UTC  

If kids are seeing adults having fun dressing up and dancing on tv on things like drag race then some are bound to want to copy- i have no issue with kids wearing clothes of another gender, having fun but when its pushed, made into something else that a kid later will find hard to back out of and / or sexualised.. same with pagents for girls many are too sexualised for kids

2018-12-17 23:26:18 UTC  

Whether or not they are allowed to wear the clothes is unlikely to change whether they come out as gay / trans / straight / whatever in the future- kids dress up, boys should be able to if they want to without it being seen as something more instantly and definately not sexualised at age 10

2018-12-17 23:38:24 UTC  

@Tomas would you let your son do that at a gay bar while being showered with singles like a stripper?

2018-12-17 23:49:19 UTC  

I think he implied that he wouldn't

2018-12-17 23:50:01 UTC  

I think he is just saying there is a difference between a boy playing dress up in private as opposed to being in a position that would objectify him.

2018-12-17 23:50:32 UTC  

2018-12-17 23:50:47 UTC  

Welcome @kaboomical :3

2018-12-17 23:50:59 UTC  

Hi

2018-12-18 00:13:40 UTC  

wonder if there are any females here

2018-12-18 01:21:16 UTC  

We wouldn't be opposed. It's like a man respecting women's rights in a civil way. There's room for all forms and sources of good.

2018-12-18 01:43:55 UTC  

@featherlessbiped there are several women here, including myself c:

2018-12-18 01:56:15 UTC  

Then we are glad to have you

2018-12-18 01:56:34 UTC  

Good is not partial. Humanity includes all humans.

2018-12-18 02:39:33 UTC  

oh nice,

2018-12-18 03:15:47 UTC  

contrary to popular belief, the MRM isn't actually based on misogyny, shocking I know xD

2018-12-18 03:20:40 UTC  

lol

2018-12-18 03:30:50 UTC  

@Tomas >If it was a 10 year old girl, it would have been a moral outrage.

You know what, it's really puritanism causing that. You see in Afghanistan, there's a tradition called 'bacha bazi' which is just like this.. Young Boys dancing in drag for old men,as because it's forbidden to make girls do that.

2018-12-18 03:30:59 UTC  
2018-12-18 03:31:21 UTC  

Here's a documentary about this

2018-12-18 04:39:13 UTC  

@blueorange22 Hello there Blue. Good to see you again.

2018-12-18 04:40:01 UTC  

A good morning/evening/afternoon from India!

2018-12-18 04:40:14 UTC  

What are you guys upto today.

2018-12-18 04:43:33 UTC  

Just got up from bed

2018-12-18 04:43:58 UTC  

Which timezone do you fall in?

2018-12-18 04:44:08 UTC  

5:30

2018-12-18 04:44:42 UTC  

Noice

2018-12-18 04:45:00 UTC  

Any topics on discussion?

2018-12-18 04:47:08 UTC  

Nay, I'm brushing my teeth

2018-12-18 04:47:28 UTC  

Cool

2018-12-18 04:49:23 UTC  

You're Assamese isn't it

2018-12-18 04:49:35 UTC  

Yep

2018-12-18 04:50:07 UTC  

How did you know?

2018-12-18 04:51:53 UTC  

I saw you being one

2018-12-18 04:52:31 UTC  

Lol, you talked about Assamese tea> yorkshire tea

2018-12-18 04:53:06 UTC  

Ah. So much of details in it haha

2018-12-18 04:53:13 UTC  

Nice anyways.

2018-12-18 04:53:18 UTC  

Where are you from?

2018-12-18 04:53:58 UTC  

Kerala

2018-12-18 04:54:37 UTC  

Vanakam or something is Tamil right? What do malayalis say?