Message from @cookedbeans

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2019-07-09 05:48:31 UTC  

He has a wife.

2019-07-09 05:48:31 UTC  

Like

2019-07-09 05:48:51 UTC  

Women aren't necessarily great at hinting at stuff verbally, it's a lot of body language and naunce

2019-07-09 05:48:58 UTC  

Fuck

2019-07-09 05:49:04 UTC  

Sucks I'm blind then

2019-07-09 05:49:25 UTC  

Wait no

2019-07-09 05:49:27 UTC  

But you have to be kind of careful because some women act alluring/into you and just want to fuck with you

2019-07-09 05:49:29 UTC  

I thought you said that to Kaufman

2019-07-09 05:50:11 UTC  

So either I get baited or it's real

2019-07-09 05:50:14 UTC  

There's a certain *look* that women give to guys when they're attracted to them, you'll pick it up eventually

2019-07-09 05:50:24 UTC  

Alright

2019-07-09 05:50:50 UTC  

You'll also feel a sexual tension sometimes

2019-07-09 05:51:02 UTC  

like its hard to explain, but the air will just get really thick

2019-07-09 05:51:17 UTC  

Also, girls *really, really* like it when you go out of your way to say little things like "hello, good morning I hope you're doing ok!", some small talk that isn't too invasive is nice, and gradually if the girl is receptive she'll open up more and more

2019-07-09 05:51:23 UTC  

yeah

2019-07-09 05:51:32 UTC  

thats more late stage shit tho

2019-07-09 05:51:49 UTC  

I somehow get people to open up to me

2019-07-09 05:51:55 UTC  

Don't know how

2019-07-09 05:52:55 UTC  

You'll pick it up, but women's body language *does change* when they're into you and have sexual tension, it might not be immediately noticable though (things like fiddling around, looking around, looking at your feet/sometimes avoiding eye contact, lowering head a little bit while looking you in the eyes)

2019-07-09 05:52:58 UTC  

It's a bit subtle

2019-07-09 05:54:22 UTC  

Subtlety is big

2019-07-09 05:55:11 UTC  

Eh I'm not really good at picking up that sorta shit

2019-07-09 05:55:25 UTC  

Then i again I'm antisocial as all hell

2019-07-09 05:55:32 UTC  

Thing with women is that we tend to naturally become a bit submissive/lower our guard around guys we like

2019-07-09 05:56:24 UTC  

Ah

2019-07-09 05:56:46 UTC  

You really gotta be a bit forward about your intentions though

2019-07-09 05:57:03 UTC  

Some women will give you hints, and if you don't pick it up, they get upset

2019-07-09 05:57:15 UTC  

Some women will get aggressive about it

2019-07-09 05:58:30 UTC  

If I don't pick up the hint I either:
>A) Get fucked for it
>B) They get annoyed
>C) Think I'm not interested
Shit I suck at multiple choice

2019-07-09 05:58:40 UTC  

Yeah

2019-07-09 05:58:43 UTC  

It depends on the girl

2019-07-09 05:58:55 UTC  

And how aggressive she is and what she wants from you

2019-07-09 05:59:03 UTC  

I know

2019-07-09 05:59:09 UTC  

Some girls just want to fuck you/suck your dick and leave ya

2019-07-09 05:59:16 UTC  

Some girls want to fuck your entire life up lol

2019-07-09 05:59:42 UTC  

Some girls will be really into you, but you might not be into them

2019-07-09 06:00:15 UTC  

So many variables

2019-07-09 06:01:03 UTC  

Depends on the girl, but you really, really want a girl who's got similar interests and values as you

2019-07-09 06:01:20 UTC  

That's true

2019-07-09 06:01:42 UTC  

Girls with similar interests/values that are into you, but might not be *as attractive as you would like* are often willing to make physical changes to fit into what you like

2019-07-09 06:02:10 UTC  

Things like losing weight, maintining hygene, etc. but you need to encourage her and support her